I can’t relate. My husband has female friends and I’m fine with it. Maybe you should work on your trust with him if he never did anything to make you distrust him.
It seems it's more than jealousy issues but rather trust issues. If his female friends were in his life well before you came on the scene, then it's very unreasonable for you to say that he can't have them 🤷♂️
'some people might think it's selfish , but tbh If I had a boyfriend and I saw him with female friends I'd be jealous too , and if he STARES at a girl that he finds attractive (visual cheating)
Yeah you're selfish. And sorta insane... normal people would be able to understand that people can have friends of the other gender and not be upset over it
You can feel that way. My lifelong best friend since I was 4 is female. She is family in all but blood. If forced to choose between her and a girlfriend, the girlfriend will always lose.
If he hasn't done anything wrong, then I think you are being too controlling and insecure trying to dictate to another grown adult what friends they can and can't have.
Yes, 100% like it or not. You can never make people do anything. You can only trust and be loyal. Grown ass adults should be able to be friends with both sexes.
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NOPE! Those aren't his friends. Those are his reserves. I don't care what anyone says. No such thing as a female "friend".
I can’t relate. My husband has female friends and I’m fine with it. Maybe you should work on your trust with him if he never did anything to make you distrust him.
No you are not selfish in fact you are brave
Your boyfriend has feelings for his female friends
Str8 men make friends with females to get something out of it
And only fools believe men and women can just be friends..
It seems it's more than jealousy issues but rather trust issues. If his female friends were in his life well before you came on the scene, then it's very unreasonable for you to say that he can't have them 🤷♂️
No I wouldn’t want my boyfriend to have female friends either.
Definitely not selfish. You are absolutely right.
Yes, that's completely unreasonable. Psychologically healthy people have friends, and some are likely to be of the opposite sex.
I honestly don't blame you. Especially if he's attractive and his female friends are too. Things happen between men and women. Fuckin way she goes!
'some people might think it's selfish , but tbh If I had a boyfriend and I saw him with female friends I'd be jealous too , and if he STARES at a girl that he finds attractive (visual cheating)
don't be that crazy controlling girlfriend nobody likes please
Yeah you're selfish. And sorta insane... normal people would be able to understand that people can have friends of the other gender and not be upset over it
If I was told I can't have friends of the opposite sex, then I'd get rid of only 1 opposite sex "friend" instead of several opposite sex friends.
Selfish and immature yes also shows u don't trust him which dooms the relationship
Yes. That is selfish and controlling behaviour. No one is going to tolerate it forever.
You can feel that way. My lifelong best friend since I was 4 is female. She is family in all but blood. If forced to choose between her and a girlfriend, the girlfriend will always lose.
Uh yeah, that's completely selfish and something you need to work on. Your emotions are your responsibility.
If he hasn't done anything wrong, then I think you are being too controlling and insecure trying to dictate to another grown adult what friends they can and can't have.
Yes, 100% like it or not. You can never make people do anything. You can only trust and be loyal. Grown ass adults should be able to be friends with both sexes.
I would draw the line with girls he used to date and girls he has had aex with.
If you're in a healthy committed relationship then you don't need to worry about it.