Would you say, "I love you too," - just so that your partner doesn't feel bad?

[Anonymous]

[definitelyNotHer]

No. Lying to your partner about your feelings is a betrayal. It's misleading and gives them a false sense of security and hope. Don't lie to them but also don't be rude when you tell them how you feel, tell him/her how you do really value your relationship and how you want to continue the relationship but you're just not at the stage yet. Now the thing is if you and your partner have been together in a serious committed relationship for 5+ months and you still don't feel any love you may want to consider staying in that relationship, but if it's still a fairly new relationship don't feel bad telling them you don't feel the same way, just be open and honest but also kind and gentle with your words and remember that to a very delicate subject and could be very hurtful if said wrong.

[DizzyDesii]

I did it twice. Once because the guy was psycho and kept threatening to off himself. The other time was before i was ready to say it. I ended up meaning it later on but at the time i wasn't ready. In future situations, i just say “im sorry, im not able to say i feel that way”

[Drdeeznuts1132]

I have in the past lol. It's not a good feeling. I used to date a lot of fast girls. No, not fast like hot, rebellious and mysterious.

Fast like a parallel version of that fast; clingy-attachment-style, "put a baby in me" fast..."I love you" on the first date fast.

We have since recovered from that pitifully acquired taste.

[OlderAndWiser]

Absolutely never! That would be a very disrespectful and misleading thing to do!

[OlderAndWiser]

Thanks for MHO!

[ChillaxingLove]

If I don’t love you I’m not going to say it to make you feel good. That word is used and abused way too much.

just ganna say thank you 🙏 lol

[Blackcupcake]

nope. dudes I’ve dated have said “I love you” and I never said it back since I didn’t feel it.

[JordanianNumetal]

Depends on how early, but if she is saying it and you don't your going to drive her away.

[parangat]

Yess ofc if you love your partner but only once or thrice lying a lot is also wrong

[Reorx]

Only if I truly meant it, if not I'd reply "thats nice" & if she confronted me on it I'd tell her the truth.

[comekitty]

No, I wouldn't ever do that to someone

[WanderingLoveWizard]

For sure

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Nope.