What would you think of a couple that moved in together within the first month of their relationship?

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CaptainOverthink · Accepted Answer

It may be they are too early in comitting but if they are aware about it then it may be a good thing because they are putting themselves more to the test while also seriously getting to know one another.
A trial by fire, if you will.

A thing to be keeping a lookout on though would be that they'd me in a honeymoon-phase of sorts, so not thinkimg too much of how good it's going until at least year 2 or more, I'd say.
Overcomitting once might turn out to be a boon in todays age but twice? A bit ahead if oirselves, are we?

spartan55 · Accepted Answer

I would think they are facing nearly impossible odds of making it work. They don't even know each other.

FifiJones · Accepted Answer

Personally, that they are not wasting time, and that they probably know what they are doing. Living with one's partner is neither a oregnancy nor a tatoo.

I would think job quitting/changing is something to wait a bit with, but even for that, if the feeling is present, why not? One can always find a new job.

Pregnancy needs a bit of certainty, though even that could be right within a month.

Tatoos, I would not to (at this age I also would not live with a girl unless I was clear with myself I'd welcome her getting pregnant with me).

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

I'd think they were rushing things. No way you can know much about each other in that short a time.

AviatorTom · Answer

I'd wish them the best. Either they are well suited for each other, or the relationship will eventually crash and burn. It's their decision... I don't question what other people do.

coachTanthony · Answer

Good for them. Living together will let them see many things.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Very needy or desperate or a rescuing syndrome

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

I'd think they had a pretty strong connection and they're lucky.
The love of my life moved in with me just 2 weeks after we met.
Of course, under the circumstances it made sense. Her abusive ex was stalking her and I was giving her a safe place to stay.

I even got into a stand off with him with our guns out, in the middle of the night right outside my house, but that's neither here nor there.

Anyway, it lasted 7 years until she passed away. Never had a single problem living with her

jeffnevrotski · Answer

What business of it is mine to care what another couple does. there's thevbottom linw it's nobody elses buisiness and if they make it their business then they or you (depending if your the couple or one of the others judging. For comment sake this is if your the couple) they are not your parents andvyou are not their child you'll be the judge of whatd good for you not them. Now can you tell me the definition of marriage? Well the definition of marriage best describes being in a relationship does it not? Then there you gave it. Thats your argument with the ones judging who have no rite whatsoever to do do.

Finchie40 · Answer

If the chemistry and connection and attraction is there , then why not? All relationships are a 50/50 chance , so whether someone chooses-to wait it out or they choose to go for it , is all that really matters. Everyone tries to rub their 2 cents together when it comes to judging someone else’s relationship , it honestly doesn’t really matter what anyone else thinks , what matters is if they are happy and they both made
That decision together who gives a fuck what other people think ,

lightbulb27 · Answer

Id think it's too fast and wonder he reasons why. But these days, maybe because they are starving and need to save money... so... they need to commit to good communication and working to be good partners.

they should work towards getting married.

RasmusAiken · Answer

Just because it "can" work doesn't mean it's a best practice. Unresolved issues with ex'es can make this a dangerous situation for both parties. (Yes, in fact I do watch too much Crime TV).

Steelcore5280 · Answer

I'd have to say the chance of that ending in a disaster is pretty high, personally. It's not a very smart move. When y'all break up (and let's be honest, most relationships fail), what are you guys gonna do?

OfMiceandMen · Answer

My initial thought would be good luck, but in the back of my mind it would be, this likely won't last.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

My girlfriend moved in with me after about a month. She either was going to follow an opportunity that would have taken her far away or she wanted me to take care of her and show I was serious. She didn't give me an ultimatum or anything though. I just knew how it was happening and I was confident and happy to have her move in and it's been over 2 years now.

Anonymous · Answer

Must be a lesbian couple, they are notorious for it.  Q: "What does a lesbian bring on a first date?" A: "A spare house key."

The_Shadow_Dweller · Answer

They took decisions, drastic intes, in haste. They could have waited at least for some time.

t_time · Answer

We did that... it worked out flawlessly.. the next year we bought a house.. now I'm his fiance haha.. next year we are getting married on our birthday. :)

LittleSally · Answer

If they knew each other a long time before dating, for example, being friends beforehand, then that makes sense to me.

TenderFantasy · Answer

I did something like that. It was fun and I don't regret it.

DermalPunch · Answer

If they were religious and strictly followed the Muslim and Jewish customs and were married already no issue at all. If it was just everyone else then big problem.

Orion76 · Answer

I don’t think anything honestly, it’s their life and life is short so I’ll just wish them luck. It might take a day or a year but there is that moment where you say yep, that’s the one.

LovingJo · Answer

I would think that it's too soon.. But you do learn from your mistakes.

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

Sounds like something my brother would do. Actually no he would probably try that bull crap in the first two weeks. ☠️🌊

ColHathi · Answer

Unless they have prior history, I'd say that's a recipe for disaster.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I had a guy move in after 2 dates and one week of knowing each other, so I can relate.

Cupido29 · Answer

That sounds like a dream relationship. Wish you luck. Personally I'm too romantic, I would move in even after 1 day with the person I really love.

NotTacocaT6969 · Answer

I’ve done that twice, so I’d think nothing of it. Lol

SoulmateSeeker1994 · Answer

Very brave, to be honest. Could have been a lottery win, could have been total failure because you don't know each other enough.

helbigarthur · Answer

Just a bad idea in general not saying it doesn't work out for people but I think it's a bad idea

art84 · Answer

Should take a few months or a year before moving in together.

Anonymous · Answer

Way too soon to be moving in together in my opinion.

Pudsmucker · Answer

He must be pretty much in love with the individual. To move in right away. My wife and I met and dated and were married within three or four weeks after we met. We're still together after 44 years

Vegasrunner · Answer

TBH it's a bad idea for a guy to move in with any girl at any time in their relationship unless they're married.

Mangospacho · Answer

It’s a great way to find out if you’re compatible. I’m all for this.

SweetTwistedSatanist · Answer

Takes guts. Maybe one of the best gambles they made. Or another miss.

mommymommy · Answer

That someone is trying to have their expenses paid, no matter what they feel for the other

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

I know of one that did and they're doing just fine. They met on Tinder of all places.

__xxksxx__ · Answer

That’s exactly what I did. It helps you understand that person more and tbh it’s fun but when you guys argue it would become the worst idea ever.

LazerBean · Answer

That the relationship is as good as over.

Mac-One · Answer

That is a little soon to make such a move.

MysticDevice · Answer

Sounds like they jumped the gun on that one.

Anonymous · Answer

that's a quick road to a break up lol!

JBlade · Answer

Rash

Agape93 · Answer

They're stupid

fonduegirl · Answer

Slow down, shawty!

Luopio27 · Answer

I think they have found love in each other.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

They're idiots.

jimmy2 · Answer

First month I was married

In_Trance · Answer

Fkn ridiculous

Anonymous · Answer

Stupid.

theemperoroda · Answer

Its okay love is love

Anonymous · Answer

I think it’s their choice.

Anonymous · Answer

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