Are people who become very attractive after significant weight loss kinder partners?

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[Anonnnn909]

If one was seen as undesirable or ugly because of their weight, and they had a desire to "be with" many others. long term.

Well, when such a person losses a lot of weight and gets a nice body, the ego is going to be boosted which may actually lead to contempt for their partner & they will then be able to fulfill those past desires and fantasies from this new body / attractiveness. They'll be getting a lot of attention from the opposite sex, which they may have craved and never had. Seduced by the adoration and desire of others.

I think it's pretty common that when one losses a ton of weight of gets significantly more attractive while being the "loser" in the relationship (for lack of a better word) the one who has a drastic and dramatic shift in attractiveness (ugly to hot) would be far more likely to commit infidelity. Or to lord their perceived increased value over their partner, which doesn't make one kinder, it makes one more vain & unkind.

But again, it depends on your circumstances as well and other factors. Other factors may not have the same result.

[Anonnnn909]

Either way it will definitely test your conviction, dedication to your partner, will and self control.

[GreekLorrd]

There is no direct correlation between weight loss and being a kinder partner. Physical appearance does not necessarily determine someone's personality traits or how they behave in a relationship. While some people may become more confident or happy after losing weight, this does not automatically make them a better or kinder partner. Kindness in a relationship is influenced by many factors, including personal values, communication skills, empathy, and respect for one's partner. It's important to focus on building these qualities rather than solely relying on physical changes to improve relationships.

[FifiJones]

Why is everyone always on about communication skills when they either mean honesty or orgasms?

[jennifer_bloom]

I knew a former fat guy who lost a lot of weight and he bullied fat people but was very nice to his attractive girlfriend. I know another fat guy that lost weight and he would complain about the way his girlfriend dressed and judge her when she wasn’t perfect looking.

[FifiJones]

Probably. People who have known adversity generally are much better companions, a lot more understanding and a lot less demanding.

[NathanDavis]

not always no...

sometimes they can end up with insecurities or, a misplace sense of new confidence and that, does not go well sometimes

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Nice question. I think such people are either judgmental still or just normal ones.

[exitseven]

Maybe since they probably feel better physically they might be.

[Anonymous]

Not if they were horrible people to begin with. Just being fat doesn't make you nice.

[Legendarylegacy13]

Probably at first eventually they will be dusch bags #jenniferhudson.

[SweetTwistedSatanist]

No, but stronger, mentally.

[Neufd]

I don’t know if there’s a correlation

[Guardian45]

I hope so