Are women not aware that a lot of men find overweight or fat women attractive?

[Anonymous]

You always see women whining or complaining that men put these expectations on them and they feel they need to uphold these body standards men want 😭. But a lot of overweight and fat women can find dudes that are into that shit. Men are attracted to all kinds of women. But i just thinks it's hilarious how women can make themselves to be victims or cry about this when there's men that are attracted to women like that. But i guess those poor babies are victims because of the dreaded patriarchy lol

[Apple1996]

Nah I know there are men out there that are into fat girl's. I'd just rather not be fat for myself. Don't really care what any of the men think.

[Asker]

Didn't say you had to be fat. Just saying that there are men that find fat or overweight women atteactive

[YollyM]

From secondhand experience I've realised that as much as some men like chubby women if you will most of those men make the women feel like they're (the men) the only ones that value them.

In other words the men are doing them a favour because nobody else would want them. When the relationship falls apart the men will use the same things he found attractive about her to bully her.

I know that's not the case for everyone but two women I knew were treated so.

[U4ea0]

Really? I don't know of any men who find fat women to be attractive. Fat is only attractive if there is a nipple attached to it. Men instinctively view fat women with revulsion.

[Asker]

I mean just go on twitter and you'll see dudes wanting to smash overweight bbw women.

[U4ea0]

Overweight and obese aren't necessarily the same thing. Deoends how much fat. I do notice that many of these guys are black men. They seem to be into that. I will say those guys would never marry them.

[Asker]

Oh some of these women are obese. And not of these men are black

[U4ea0]

Wow, maybe they just have incredibly low standards?

[Asker]

Or maybe its what they're attracted. What you find attractive. is what you find attractive, but not everyone will find what you like attractive

[TheFlak38]

Men today find all women attractive and suitable as a partner. Women on the other hand see 90% of the world's male population as unsuitable.

[FictionalCharacter]

Call it whatever you want. The reason women talk about these issues is experiences from men who rejected them because of their body. So some women turn to this website to get input from the opposite gender. Only to be ridiculed even more.

[Asker]

On this site, people are going to be hard asses and give you shit. But if you really look and pay attention, you'll see that there's dudes that are attracted to bigger women

[jennifer_bloom]

What do you have to offer that a good looking women would be attracted to you? You always say other people have nothing to offer but what do you have to back up your standards?

[prepretheprettyone]

We are aware but some men hide the fact their attracted to overweight or fat women. One of those reasons is that it’s not a popular thing to be with a big woman openly. Me personally I love being a thick woman but I get insecure sometimes but that’s normal. some of these little boys want unrealistic body types that forces women to alter their body and not feel good about themselves.

[Sarahplus2]

Some guys think overweight women are an easy lay or great for oral.

[Asker]

It depends. If this fat women gets a lot of attention and simps. She won't be an easy lay

[Anonymous]

Most guys I know that like overweight/ fat woman are insecure guys who are afraid that their girl is going to leave them for some other guy. So by having an overweight/ fat woman the chances of another guy taking their girl is slim to none.

[U4ea0]

There is truth in what you say.

[Anonymous]

They whine bitch and moan because while some men do find land whales attractive.. Most men do not.. And the ones that do find them attractive are jot the ones they want to find them attractive..

[U4ea0]

Maybe the men at the very bottom find all women attractive. I sure as hell don't.

[Anonymous]

I feel like it's a pretty small percentage of men. No guy was ever nice to me when I was fat.

[Asker]

Trust ita more than that. The media and feminism will bullshit and lie to you that women are shamed and need to uphold these high stabsards men put on women. But a lot of men are attracted to overweight women. More than vice versa. Women dont like fat men but there are men that like fat women