I think just generally, be dynamic.
Don't look at her with a look on your face like a sick puppy saying 'what do you want to do?' 'wherever you want is fine!' etc.
Ask for her input a lot, but if she doesn't have any, be decisive. Make plans. Make decisions if they're not being made. You can ask her input, you can let her decide even, but the buck stops with you.
Try thinking of yourself as the captain, and her as your first mate. You trust her, value her thoughts, consider what she wants, but you make decisions. You make sure your needs and hers get met before moving on to 'wants' for either of you.
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i think it means to make all or most of the decisions
it means being stronger, making more decisions and just generally being someone that she can depend on to make the right choices both in your relationship and in helping her with her other (hopefully not romantic) relationships with people. It means being more forward in suggesting where to go with things while still allowing her to pass judgement on your suggestions.
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to make plans most of the time
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