Who is the dominant one in your relationship?

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Who is usually the one who has control over most decisions? Who is more dominant in bed? Who wears the pants? etc.

Smoke-n-Growls · Accepted Answer

I'm the more dominant one in most aspects, often the one first to take charge, etc.

That said, my partner is sexually dominant and I'm on the submissive side of switch.

It's more like I have more initiative.

DeeDeeDeVour · Accepted Answer

I make my husband dominate me during sexual activities and make the decisions regarding our safety & security. Other than those, we have an equal partnership.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I try to choose partners who can be equal partners.

Xoxocutekitty · Answer

I'm usually the first to 'bring up' expectation setting conversations, things we should talk about, scheduling logistics. My partner if he has a strong opinion will say. He's more often sexually dominant or in charge, but I am probably more sexually aggressive if that makes sense. I think we have a pretty equal partnership. No one makes decisions without consulting the other, but no one objects unless its personal.

Nxtawm · Answer

So far I'm usually a bit more dominant and even outside of romantic relationships, I tend to be the more dominant person/the leader with the exception of me just wanting to be the follower. It's cause I tend to want to have control of the situation, not having that control sometimes makes me feel that things aren't as efficient or that i would've done something differently/better. I do want an equal partnership tho 😂

Nawlins34 · Answer

I'm the dominant one in the relationship. We started off 50/50 for the most part, but once she had a body of work (She trusts my decision making, etc) she had no problem with letting me handle it all.

She's dominant in her businesses because she owns them, she's docile with me because she trusts me.

jgokgotit · Answer

I'm not in a relationship at the moment, but usually she is the one taking charge in most cases. There are very few things that matter to me enough for me to care to be the leader. I prefer to take the backseat, let her work her amazing God-given talents and watch how amazing she is. However, if I do feel strongly about something I'll say it and she will listen.

SimpleRhubarb · Answer

I do, and I love my boyfriend to death, but I’m getting bored of being the one “in charge” of everything (just in life) all the time. It’s not so dominant that he doesn’t get decisions or respect or input or anything, though.

Mickey9999 · Answer

In my marriage, it was me but it was forced upon me because of his health and ultimate death. Having had that experience and extra stresses, I’m more than willing to hand over the dominance for more of an equal partnership. I’m more submissive outside of my career as I’m dominant in my career so it wouldn’t be a big leap for me either.

Natehunter199 · Answer

Im the more dominant one. When it comes to sex it was 50/50, when we had a good sex life. But i loved it when she was the dominant one when it came to sex. When it come to making decisions, we do it together.

nerdybutlazy · Answer

My partner is more dominate in bed but I'm more dominate in making decisions about things like date night but besides that we have a pretty equal partnership

DizzyDesii · Answer

Im single atm but I prefer to be the boss outside the bedroom the majority of the time, and I’d let him be the boss in the bedroom the majority of the time

Unit1 · Answer

I'm not going to have such a weird relationship dynamic unless she wants me to (in bed). I'm looking for an equal teamplayer, not a slave to abuse and walk over and not a master to bow down to and kiss their boots.

jack187625 · Answer

I am, but try and get her to make decisions. It's like pulling teeth.

Myk13 · Answer

That’s an easy one. It’s me, and as long as I remain single, there’s no arguing it either.

katiesmuff · Answer

I picked C for us as we have a pretty equal decision relationship

fishlipsfriend · Answer

I like a leader out of bed... meaning he takes lead not control. In bed he takes full control of my body. My body is his to...😏

Anonymous · Answer

I am a normal heterosexual man, and I am attracted to, and only date normal heterosexual women. Thus, I am the dominant one in my relationships, in life and in bed. It is the natural order in normal heterosexual relationships... IF both parties want to be happy and satisfied long-term.

hellokitty96_18 · Answer

i want him to be dominant. it allows me to not have to think for a change

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

It was always me and in the future if i'll be in a relationship again and get married, i'll be the same!

Posterboy56 · Answer

I am.  She occasionally pretends that she is. It's funny.

jahaims · Answer

I am more dominant in bed. I let my wife make all the choices I am pretty indifferent as a person.

lovedejj_xo · Answer

Depends how angry I am lol. I guess on good days he is.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

It is immoral for a man to not be the head of his household. If he isn't, he is a loser. And if she wants to be with a loser she's got some real screws loose. But usually she just ends up cheating on him eventually.

MidnightEclipse · Answer

In most cases, we're equal, but she's more dominant when it comes to intimate moments. I am perfectly ok with this.

Footballplayz · Answer

But I will always pay for dinner and I'm willing to fight for the bill

pizzalovershouse · Answer

Usely its girls who decide a lot of that but if can be equal depending on each taste in what they want

Anonymous · Answer

I guess I am right now because I’m single it was was pretty much equal when I was in a relationship

MrTaboo · Answer

I am. I'm a Dom, she's my Slave. Though only part time. I'm looking for a 24/7 Slave. Marriage if kinky enough.

anon1903 · Answer

I'm the dom in most relations.

Midnight_Kiss · Answer

The cats 😂

Anonymous · Answer

I'm currently not in a relationship

nodnol32 · Answer

She is.

SebastianPlanet6 · Answer

Totally equal

OddBeMe · Answer

We each dominate different sectors.

NorthwestRider · Answer

My fiancée is, she makes the final decisions

Anonymous · Answer

We are equals but I'm dominant in sex ;)

mrgspoter · Answer

Who said there is one, some people are single

Iron_Man · Answer

I am I lead by example and I dominate my woman

Anonymous · Answer

My mum

Valnac · Answer

I am a man, and I wear the pants!

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