Guys who are always in relationship and are never single, how do you do it?

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I've seen guys who only go within weeks to 6 months being single but they neve go years without being single. they are always in relationships. I want to know how you do u do it and can you teach me how you get girls. do you have a strong social circle with girls? or do you hang out with guys who have a lot of women? are you a smooth talker? do you make girls laugh a lot and do you always take them on a emotional roller coaster? What is your job? where and how do you meet these women? let me know how you got all your girls.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

You just got to be confident and be yourself , don’t show any signs of weakness , Most girls are attracted to a guy’s masculine energy , Don’t walk around like your shit don’t stink either and don’t walk around like you are nervous and weak , just be respectful and treat a girl the same way you want to be treated , you won’t land every girl but you will have higher chances of getting her and having her come to you , I use to be shy when I was younger and once I got past that stage my attraction level went up , Most girl’s want a man she can look up to that listens to her , she doesn’t want a man that she has to babysit and hold his hand at all times , She wants a man she can go to and feel safe in his arms , when she feels she has a confident man she will think about you all the time and look forward to see you , she wants a man that is down to earth that likes to smile , and she likes a man that is mature and has his shit together , to keep a girl by your side you have to play good guy bad guy , Girl’s need that drama on their lives lol , if a girl constantly makes you try to chase her , don’t chase her , just let her go , she will more than likely come crawling back to you once she realizes she has a man that doesn’t tolerate nonsense , she will be crawling back on her knees for you , when you get her in the bedroom , dominate her , Most girl’s love being submissive to a man , she isn’t going to have any issues spreading her legs for you , Let her know you are in control and tell her what you want her to do to you , don’t let her take control over you , that comes later when you are
Committed to spice things up but in the beginning you dominate her , When a girl loves and respects a man she is t going to hesitate to get on her knees to please him , that’s best the best advice I can give man , Breaking the ice with a girl is always a 50/50 chance , once you get her attention you pretty much have to take the lead , do t be an asshole just be confident , and respectful , once she feels safe and secure with you the ball is pretty Much in your court , just treat her how you want to be treated , don’t ever let a girl walk over you or you will lose her

Vegasrunner · Accepted Answer

Excellent question for reference I've been in relationships w/ woman for over 20 years. For clarity there isn't a day that has gone by during that time that at least 1 woman in the world wasn't proactively reaching out to me in a non platonic nature.
1. Yes it's not that difficult to teach someone to get girls, it's just a matter of are they willing to execute.
2. 90% focus needs to be on yourself 10% on women and or other competitors
3. No circle of friends - The key is to have several lead sources girls as friends are useless unless u know how to use them to get more girls.
4. Yes, it's important to be a "smooth talker" but it's necessary to be congruent w/ your actions. What u say to a women isn't as important as how u say it or your actions after. Inexperienced guys never figure out that most girls have heard all the things guys say. What they're waiting to see are your actions.
5. Yes, if you personally can make a girl laugh it's a very good indicator that she likes you. However understand that it's about making her laugh once you have her, not while you're trying to attract her.
6. Women take themselves on emotional roller coasters- To be successful w/ women you must be willing to let them go. Women tend to say what they are feeling AT THAT TIME and a women w/ deep feelings for u will change how she feels 100's of times a day. One of the best ways to attract a women is simply by not acknowledging her issue when she wants u to.
7. I'm a regional manager for a National sports company, and own an operate a small LLC w/ operates I'm the RE space.
8. I meet women everywhere including:
- Bars n Restaurants
- At Events
- Dating Apps
- Grocery stores
- Gym
- At airports*
Hope this helps.
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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

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Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

I know a guy that dates 2 or 3 women at a time and has been doing it for years, and he is not rich, not tall and certainly not that good-looking. He does however have a magnetic personality, so that must be it.

MrOracle · Answer

The guys you are talking about prioritize socializing above all else, and spend tons of time on the phone when they aren't spending time with friends. They don't watch TV, they don't read, they work and they socialize. They often even have jobs that encourage or at least enables socializing.

Having all of that practice and background means that they are good at it, and that they have multiple large circles of friends. Where you start over from nearly zero, those guys break up and are already 3/4 of the way to being in a new relationship. That's why it doesn't take them long.

Anonymous · Answer

I meet all my girlfriends at work.
Some of them were just flings, but a few became my actual girlfriend.
I don't hit on them right away. I like to take my time, treat them professionally, only talk to them when I need to or if they talk to me, and put out a positive energy when I'm around them.
Within a month or two, I'll ask for their number and ask them out. Only 1 out of 6 has said no so far.

I'm not gonna lie though, I'm not a smooth talker or all that great with women. I'm just well liked and respected where I work and I'm good looking. I'm sorry if that sounds conceited, but that's probably the main reason for my success

OfMiceandMen · Answer

Being able to jump from one relationship to the next is not commendable. It shows the guy could care less about the women he dates, they are expendable.

He's likely damaged goods. Nothing wrong with getting some tips from an individual, but the best person to ask is someone that has had long real relationships, not one that changes women like his underwear.

Anonymous · Answer

They generally go for careers where most women also hang around. They read less and most of them are from well-off to wealthy families. Parents bought them expensive car gadgets which actually attract a lot of women. They don't read much or pursue hobbies and most importantly either are good-looking or spend a lot of money on looks from a very young age.

I know some of them even though every woman around her knows about his changing to a new girlfriend every month, they still are crazy for those guys. Well, life's crazy, and unfair so just be happy with what you have got.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Just prioritize dating when I'm single. I don't waste time with video games or anything. I work go to the gym and date/go out. I think I'm also hot and I'm definitely successful. But I think what really does it is that I'm very masculine and dominant. I don't listen to women. They talk but they are very confused little children. If you listen to what women say you won't get anywhere they always say everything wrong basically.

SAMI_DABBAB · Answer

By bringing nothing to the table, you should try it. Because if you gave something for a relationship you'd be exhausted and unable to just start all over

shades777 · Answer

Its easy when your fit and handsome and always around women, more you interact with women the easier it is.

Having reliable transportation and a place to take her to makes a difference too, oh and money for dates

Minahh · Answer

Those who jump from a relationship to relationship or hookup to hookup have unhealed trauma and it's nothing something to praise

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

confidence and money

captain_voidwalker · Answer

The short answer is they have lots of money

Anonymous · Answer

Manipulating Girls and Confidence

robocop666 · Answer

they look good. simple

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Side hoes.

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