It has happened with guys that I didn't present myself sexual to which I find disappointing. It has happened with guys I went to school with. In middle school, I used to really like a guy in one of my classes, and I was in his group for a project, and we spoke normally, so nothing sexual. I don't know if he knew at the time that I liked him, but he would always bully me & yell at me & treat me badly. After I left that school a year later though, one of my friends told him that I liked him, and I don't know what else she said, but he got my number off that friend & started texting me & pretending he was interested in getting to know me & chatting to me. However, eventually he started telling me he thought I was sexy & that he would love to have sex with me. I was disappointed & annoyed because I actually LIKED him, which meant I wanted to get to know him & spend time with him, sex was not the first thing on my mind. I thought because he was one of those popular guys, that maybe he does it with all girls, but I heard he used to actually properly like one of my friends back in elementary school, just like how I liked him, and he was still following her on social media after almost 8 years & still liking her pictures even though they're not friends anymore. Whereas with me he deleted me when I told him I didn't want casual sex with him.
with another guy as well, I liked him, but he didn't wanna follow me on any social media. he just wanted to have sex with me & not associate with me on social media, whilst he has other girls in his life who he's happy to keep following on social media & having them in his life. Why does this happen to me & why can't I be like other girls that actually get to stay on their social media & not get deleted after saying no to sex? how come those girls get to be followed by those guys I like without giving them sex? I'm sure they're not all fucking them.