Men in your 30s, what do you look for in a committed relationship and/or dates?

[bobalife]

Slowly starting to want to date again. I wanna explore what does men in their 30s who are ready and intentional for long-term relationships look for ☺️

[GreekLorrd]

There is no one-size-fits-all answer to what men in their 30s look for in a committed relationship or date, as each person has their own individual preferences and priorities. However, here are some general things that many men in this age range may prioritize:

Compatibility: They may look for someone with similar values, goals, and interests.

Communication: Good communication is often key to a successful relationship. Men may seek someone who is open, honest, and able to effectively express their thoughts and feelings.

Emotional maturity: Many men may look for someone who is emotionally stable, able to handle conflicts in a healthy way, and who takes responsibility for their actions.

Independence: While men may want to be supportive of their partner, they may also value someone who is independent and has their own life outside of the relationship.

Attraction: Physical attraction is often an important aspect of a romantic relationship, and men may look for someone they find physically appealing.

Ultimately, it's important to remember that everyone is different and has their own priorities and preferences when it comes to relationships. It's always a good idea to communicate openly and honestly with potential partners to ensure that both people are on the same page and have similar expectations.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I can't really describe for other dudes. I'd say for me I look for things, particularly if looking long term, not fat or going to become fat and mentally sane. Financial or random issues and a nack for cheating are some of the red flags.

Long-term includes things I wouldn't usually bother to consider like her eating habits and lifestyle.

[Billlewis]

Her looks aren't particularly important; the most desirable attributes I look for are assertiveness, confidence and to some degree, even selfishness. Is that weird?

[Luffy1990]

Every man is different. I want a girl that is polite, nice (to me, my friends, and my family), she can tolerate my nerdy side , accepts me for me , and most importantly understanding (especially my learning disability ADHD).

[shortster]

Someone who doesn't have kids, but wants them. Who is honest, loyal, and kind. That doesn't smoke or do drugs. And doesn't want pets (I have allergies).

[JayParris]

Why would you want to pretend to be something you're not? Just be who you are.

[Dreamclouds]

Affection and love , pretty much, you know from a pure heart and warm soul, it is so important

[EaterPeter]

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