my boyfriend of 8 months went to Europe to visit family. texted me when he landed 3 days ago. but no contact since. I've texted him once to say hello. we have iphones it said delivered. but got no reply. my question is how long is it ok to not reach out to me? i understand he is with family. but no contact? is that normal?
It's normal for communication to be less frequent while someone is on vacation, especially if they are spending time with family or have limited access to phone or internet. However, it's understandable that you may be feeling concerned or neglected if you haven't heard from your boyfriend in a few days.
There's no set timeframe for how long it's "okay" for your boyfriend not to contact you, as every relationship is different and it depends on your individual expectations and communication styles. Some couples may check in with each other every day while apart, while others may be fine with less frequent communication.
The best thing to do is to communicate your feelings with your boyfriend when he returns from his trip. Let him know how his lack of communication made you feel and ask him to clarify his communication expectations while on future trips. It's important to have open and honest communication in any relationship to ensure both partners' needs are being met.
Probably got a booty call and didn't want to be rude
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Once a week is more than enough.
Give the guy a break, he's on vacation.
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