Do we naturally take a likeness to people who are more like us? Is it wrong to be this way?

[Anonymous]

tI’m asking because my brother has had many girlfriends. His current girlfriend is quiet and to herself. She doesn’t like drama and she really only communicates with my brother and not me or the rest of the family but I’m still cool with his ex girlfriend because she is the complete opposite of her. She’s more like me and the rest of the family. Shed’s loud, energetic, outgoing. She enjoys drinking. She enjoys drama, gossiping sort of enjoys being messy as well. Those aren’t the best personality traits in the world but her traits aligned more with who I am and the rest of the family while his current girlfriend seems to not fit in. Is it wrong that I prefer the ex girlfriend over the current one? Considering in my opinion, she’s more like able in the sense I can actually have a conversation and good time with her.

[HateyouxD]

Who cares though.. the ex girlfriend is totally out of the picture lol

[Asker]

Yes but she was just more like able. I enjoyed having someone around that would speak to me and have a conversation with me outside of my brother. All the new girl does is come over from time to time. Acts shy. She speaks and says hello and maybe small conversation if I or my mother or other siblings start it but nothing more and I can get if that’s just who she is and my brother cares for her or love her but it’s just weird. How do you not interact with any of your boyfriends family if you say you love him? she’s not even fiends with any of us on Facebook or any social media. It’s like don’t you want to have fun outside of just him?

[HateyouxD]

Again... who gives af?
The ex is out of the picture.
The now girlfriend owes you or anyone in the family NO obligation to communicate, etc. Tough luck. Sorry I'm not more helpful lol