How is it okay to let someone go so blind for so long?

[Anonymous]

Not sure what the point was or is. Hiding yourself.

[TheThingALing]

Blind to how they treat others yet he claims to be a saint?

Or blind to how he trusted someone for so long despite all the obvious signs he should have seen and realized he was being played?

[Asker]

Everyone isn't perfect. Yes.

Being played? While he's fucking others. Yea alright. Not sure what you're getting at

[TheThingALing]

I was asking if your post was referring to one of the two scenarios I listed since your post didn't offer to many details

[Asker]

A guy was interested in me for a long time. Maybe it was just sex. He never really came out to me to say what else he was on about. And from what I'm seeing he's gone so I should just move on

[TheThingALing]

Other than it being a coworker, I can't picture a scenario where some guy would show interest for a long time, and then leave after sex, other than the sex wasn't good to him. With a coworker, I've seen instances where after some event happens in one of their relationships, then they'll get together and the person may go back to an ex

[Asker]

He's leaving because I'm psycho.
Lol I didn't behave well and I need for him to know my intentions were always well. I just needed to grow up. And I still have growing up to do. He needs to know I will always love em. And I wish things were different. I go cry now. Thanks for your help (he wasn't a coworker)

[TheThingALing]

I think I understand your situation now. May I ask if you ever disclosed and/or took accountability for the things you may have done?

[Asker]

Always have and always will.

[Asker]

Well maybe not at 25 but now absolutely

[spartan55]

Wth are you talking about pink anon? No example, no context. How do you expect anyone to answer this?