Do you question the history of your relationship life?

[SoJust]

Did you question me because these were done to me, I should have behaved like this Dec Dec, does it come to your mind from time to time, if it comes to your mind, how do you get rid of these thoughts

[melanieeeB]

Mhm yeah sometimes but they never bother me or I don't see them as a problem.
It's like "I should have" or "Maybe if..." but I accept it for what it is and I just know I will do it better in the future and so these thoughts come up for a sec and then I just leave it, I don't overthink it and I don't drawl on them. Kinda like meditating, you realize the thought and let it be and let that thought move. It's okay but I don't focus my energy into the past too much, i just do better and learn from the past.

[SoJust]

I like a great thought so much I'll take you as the best opinion

[Nikki1989]

Nope. Everything happens for a reason.