How do you face the biggest problems in your life?

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I am not talking about some small problems, I mean the type of problems that can totally change your life and all of it depends on it. And when this is not depended on you but rather on some external factors that you cannot change, only wait, try your best to find alternatives and try your luck and hope that your life won’t totally fall apart.

glennos89 · Accepted Answer

Whatever you do never ever give up the fight.

What I do personally is... when I'm at my lowest point mentally thinking about giving up on everything is...

walking to the closest mirror I can find, look myself straight up in my own eyes which is a little bit weird but nevertheless I keep staring myself and then I will tell myself that I'm a total loser who miserably failed in life being a little baby because I quit when things get a little bit difficult. And mean every word I say to myself beating myself down when I decide not to fight anylonger...

To me that works so well because I always tell everyone not to give up fighting etc.. so when I don't follow my own advise when I feel los, then I really feel like a complete failure and a weak af. For some reason something immediately starts to spark and it ignites a fire again in my mond that doesn't wanne give up so easily. When I feel the sparks again I always tell myself at that same moment that Im not going to be defeated by own selfish ego and that I will fight till the death if nescecarry and that losing this mental battle against myself isn't a option.

It's better to fight and die then to give up and quite in my opinion.

As a man I wanne be a strong entity by default. Being the alpha or try my best to become one. Calling myself a weak loser is boosting my drive to fight for it again because I can't see myself and weak being on the same team ever.

I kinda mindfuck myself and it always works out for the best

dynamicyandere · Accepted Answer

First, I shut off all my electronics. Be by myself. Breathe. I ground my thoughts, my emotions, and my energy.

I remember who I am, what I stand for, what my values are. Because that is the basis from where I make all my decisions.

I think about myself on my deathbed, about what I will and won’t regret.

I get clear on exactly what I want to do, and why, and I do my very best to go after that.

I accept that the best I can do is the best I can do. Anything outside of that will be out of my control.

If things don’t go according to plan, I will find a way and figure it out, as I always have.

Adapt and overcome, always.

I’ll focus on the outcome I want and give it my all.

I’ll embrace perseverance, resourcefulness, and determination. I will live and breathe those things.

itsalyssaagain · Accepted Answer

Hmmmmm a few things I’ll be honest with you.

I cry a lot to release my emotions.

I also work out a lot to release my emotions.

I confide in someone. Whether it’s family or a therapist (I went to therapy a few times in my life when life was reaaaaaallly hard).

I get away from everyone and everything and try to clear my mind so that I can think clearly. Our thoughts are incredibly powerful and if our brains are trained well enough, we can find the solution to anything.

Finally, and I think this is the biggest one, I believe in a higher power. For me, that’s God. And if something isn’t going in my way it’s going in God’s way. And I’m a good person with a good heart and good intentions. Therefore I know that God will protect me always.

Pinay_ako · Accepted Answer

I face them head on. Always remember this, whatever it is, it will pass and a year from now you’ll laugh at it because you went through it all and guess what you’re stronger than ever.

Unit1 · Answer

Head on.

How do you face the biggest problems in your life?

I survived and escaped the most shittiest episodes of my life since childhood. Escaped from abusive and toxic family. Escaped imposed poverty. Escaped a neglectful shithole, where i starved, was sick and i would not be surprised if the women there hated me ( they didn't but they sure as death were not loving me).

What did it cost? Everything.

What helped me the most escaping this hell? Money and privacy.

Friendlybro79 · Answer

I stub my toe as hard as I can and then my biggest problems seem stupid. Lol. I think I answered you sort of. I try to find humor in everything I can. Self deprecating humor for me keeps me from taking myself to seriously.

Anonymous · Answer

You take control of the things you can control, what isn't up to you, just isn't and you have no control over so what you should do is take control of what you can and try making the best decisions that will lead you to the best outcomes, then after that what happens happens.

nolabels · Answer

Lately I cry, pray, try to keep pushing and do so when I can.

My problems of late have been most alleviated when I ask for the help of a "correct" other person.

Knowing who that other "correct" person may be can be difficult.

I've recently been lucky in that regard.

I wish you the best.

ohsheeT · Answer

Big or small we will make it through if we allow ourselves to do so after the problem has happen and we are honest with ourselves and except it. . Then it's all in haw we handle and deal with it if we run from it. it will follow if we except it we deal with it. And after some time we will always find something positive has come from it

Andres77 · Answer

This is too broad a topic but... I try to stay positive throughout and it helps everything

DryGermanGuy · Answer

„I knew a man who once said, *Death smiles at us all. All a man can do is smile back.*“  - Maximus Meridius, Gladiator

lorenzomichael · Answer

Listen you deal with it head on to the best of your ability. Sometimes things just don't work out for some reason or another. At least you'll have a little understanding on the situation. That's the way life is, it has its problems, but it also has its good times. Unless your a jack ass and problems are just a normal part of your life...

sheenagwapa · Answer

i truet Jesus... heaven is backinh me up... despite all the persecutions i experienced because of some people who are just judgmental the thought that heaven is helping me gives me energy snd joy within my heart

OddBeMe · Answer

It’s funny. Sometimes the best thing to do is nothing.

Years ago I had this massive loan. Stopped paying after they doubled the interest rate. I had to ignore phone calls for a year until an attorney I hired for a grand negotiated a fraction payoff.

So…I guess logic. Looking up what others have done. Like you’re doing here on GaG. Well done.

Vikkrram · Answer

I would say you know it depends on time the problems once at a time looking so big when now you look at that period you would realize that it can be solved peacefully.

It totally depends on time , time heals all the pain.

TheMadLad · Answer

By accepting things like they are and starting to not take life too seriously. coming from a person who experienced problems that can’t be dealt with and changed his life 180* degrees.

msmissydc · Answer

for me most importantly: Not alone!  There are things that would have ended so differently if I didn't have help from either parents, friends or my partner and even police.

Sparkie460 · Answer

I work on one problem at a time and face them head on. I work on the easiest to solve first

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

I stand erect in the face of adversity.  There is only one way to get me to be a flaccid member of society.

warsevf · Answer

Loosing weight. Divide and conquer. First move your ass to gym. Be consistent. Improve technique. Then focus on eating. Then focus on sleeping.

Career. Give up Give up Give up... Not really giving up.. just taking breaks.

jshm2 · Answer

I suppose it's why I still keep some nefarious "will cut up a dead body in the bad yard" guys still on my phone.

exitseven · Answer

I try to think of all my options. Try to look two or three moves ahead, make a plana nd try to implement it.

Anonymous · Answer

Problem is always money.. that’s what my friend told me.. my biggest problem is my feminine character. People treat me weird as soon as they hear my voice. My feminine voice give out everything about me. I am transgender but not coming out because people get stabbed on the street. I try to make money by giving massage but not many request unlike straight women. I play lotto every week hoping I can win!

Gent207-2 · Answer

Depends on whether I say "fuck it" or if there are alternatives

libsaretards · Answer

Head first and determined that the only way I will fail is if I die

LiamJHayden · Answer

I accept and often avoid what I cannot change. I change what I can unless it already fits my needs.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Straight on. I'd like to add that facing my own problems took many years and a lot more to almost absolve.

Anonymous · Answer

I live my life with a philosophy that has 2 rules. 1. Don't worry about the small things in life. 2. Everything in life is small.

msc545 · Answer

Either with alacrity or procrastination. Take your pick.

CubaPirate · Answer

The cost of living crisis here in the UK. Every increasing food and utility bills

sheikalana · Answer

I meditate and pray about it by myself.

loveslongnails · Answer

Head on - just deal with them.

Grond21 · Answer

Entrust it to God

SandyKandy · Answer

avoid democrats

Charliefretz329 · Answer

Take slow breaths and give it your best shot

Christsdisciple15 · Answer

I cry and sleep

RingOfFire · Answer

RUN!

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