So... are these situations also cheating?

[msc545]

1. A girl that is in a relationship with a guy has sex with another girl - is this cheating or not?

2. A guy that is in a relationship with a girl has sex with another guy - is this cheating or not?

[OlderAndWiser]

If you do something that you must hide from your partner because you know they would not approve/be disappointed/want to kill you, then you have violated their trust. Whether you call it cheating is a silly diversionary tactic intended to draw your attention away from what's really important.

[OfMiceandMen]

I consider them cheating, as they had sex with someone else, provided it was done without the knowledge/consent of the person they are with.

[WonderBell99]

Yes to both. Regardless of whether the person (s) in question is gay or not, it is completely impulsive and shitty to engage in intercourse with someone who is not your partner when you’re in a relationship. I value loyalty the most, both in friendships and relationships.

[Nikki1989]

If it is done in secret, it is cheating.

[richardcory]

IMHO cheating is breaking the bounds of a particular relationship, and those bounds may be different for different couples

[exitseven]

okay , its like this, Any physical relationship with another person outside the relationship that is sexual in nature is cheating.

[Summeroflove]

Yeah it’s cheating dude

[Sparkie460]

If you're doing anything sexual outside of your relationship it's cheating

[Anonymous]

Cheating is doing anything with someone else that you would not be ok doing in front of your partner.

[najekim]

Depends if the partner is aware of it or not.

[musicbrain5]

Both are cheating.

[Spade_01]

That's cheating.. Duh.

[Iron_Man]

We all know of course it is bad bad bad

[Anemone978]

Yeah its cheating..

[NathanDavis]

also?

[On_cloud_wine]

Unless you have your partners consent, yeah

[On_cloud_wine]

But I would consider that a shit test anyway. Like yeah babe, I want you to be free to do what you please.. but deep down, I’d be like yeah.. this relationship won’t go any further than this with us.

[On_cloud_wine]

If you have to be in a polyamorous relationship to feel complete or feed whatever it is you feel like you need,, I’d just consider it more of a situationship.

If you find your soulmate, they’re all you need and want.

[KrakenAttackin]

Definitely cheating.