Why are relationships so good in the beginning then go bad later on?

[Avocadorable]

[Finchie40]

Cuz in the beginning it’s just infatuation , when we meet someone new , we are infatuated by that person , their beauty, their personality , it’s all new and exciting and you feel like they are the best thing that has ever came into your life , but the truth is , most people in general overlook the big picture when they meet someone new , they tend to put the things they actually enjoy aside cuz they are infatuated by this new person , after some time with that new person , you start to realize that you really don’t have much in common , the things that you put aside for them come back to you and you start to miss those things that you actually enjoyed doing, and you realize this new person doesn’t really like the things that you use to like , so you both realize you really don’t have much in common , why it’s best to find someone that has a lot in common with you before you make a commitment to someone , really get to know them before you make things official, people that rush into relationships are setting themselves up for disaster cuz yes the chemistry and connection in the beginning is amazing but after some time you might realize that only thing you both have good together is the sex but really nothing else , I have dated girls’ that didn’t like the music I listened to , or didn’t like drinking craft beer , didn’t like the movies I was into etc but in the beginning they were all about it because it was new and exciting to them but after some time they start to get bored of you because they realize you really have nothing in common with each other you were just infatuated by each other

[FilmGuy93]

People put on a show in the beginning. The thing about being in a relationship with someone is that your real personality traits come out eventually.

[kylee2437]

Because people love people before they actually like them. A lot of people thinking lust is love when in reality you are falling for temporary feelings and behaviors of a person.

[Pinay_ako]

People get comfortable and show their true colours. The pretending and impressing part is over. It wears off. The masks gotta come off sometime

[Avocadorable]

What lessons life has taught you so far?

[OlderAndWiser]

When they go bad in the beginning, they haven't lasted long enough to be called "a relationship."

[Anonymous]

Because nobody meets the actual person in the beginning. You're meeting that person's representative. Thier PR person if you will.😆 After enough time the let thier guard down and then the actual person shows up. And they're sometimes actually quite unpleasant. 😆😆😆

[Anonymous]

I can tell right away when it's gonna go bad and I haven't been wrong yet.
I can also tell when its gonna last, and I haven't been wrong on that either.
It's all about that connection and how you feel about yourself around them.
Too many people get distracted by lust and infatuation to see what's right in front of them

[Nikki1989]

It takes work, and some people just give up trying.

[On_cloud_wine]

That’s the honeymoon phase for you.. tis why you shall never get married so soon

[Ms_Facesitter]

Bad because people who rush in are blinded by what they want to see.

[dudeinohio]

Complacency. Relationships constantly require work. Letting things go won't work.

[Anonymous]

Because the more you shop, the more you save, thats shop in save!

[Molly1997]

I don't know mine never went bad

[SandyKandy]

Monogamy doesn't work.