She says she likes me and loves me but isn’t looking for something serious?

[Anonymous]

I don't know what to do I love her so much and she says she likes me and loves me a lot but If she did wed be together we’ve been through so much shit together and if I try to move on I can’t she wants to still be friends but it’s so hard I try and talk less but she’ll text me I miss you or can’t stop thinking about you and cave in I don't know what to do I want something real but don’t want to lose a good friend I love any advice

[Summeroflove]

If she doesn’t want you. Move on. If she won’t talk to you. Well that sucks. But she isn’t worth it.


Maybe id she wants to go on a few dates maybe something will develop later. Maybe not.

[Asker]

Yeah like I try to pull back but she text me or calls me saying she misses me and I feel bad if I don’t respond but then it’s so hard just being her friend

[Summeroflove]

Well Asker it’s not nice to just ignore someone. Maybe she sees you as a good friend

[Summeroflove]

If she’s bothering you or you don’t want to talk anymore. Express that

[Asker]

I know I don’t ignore her i just don’t get why she says she likes me a lot and has feelings but doesn’t want anything serious just don’t know if I should just move on or leave it’s hard being friends with someone you love

[Summeroflove]

Asker we don’t know what goes on in someone’s head and unless they want to disclose that. We won’t know….

If she doesn’t want something serious. There probably is someone else in this world who does