Ok, looking here for a bit of advice as I’m very confused about her intentions.
We knew each other online and have been Facebook friends for a few years now, but don’t actually know each other for real. She’s been interested in my posts all of that time. We’ve chatted on occasion too…. but around mid February she reached out & asked for my snapchat.
I gave her it and she started snapping me flirty with me, one of her puckering up, some playing with her hair, basically all the usual things you’d expect.
At the time I wasn’t really interested in a relationship so I just kinda complimented her. I’ve always snapped her back, but it’s always been non-sexual things.
Looking back, other than a small number of other things she's mostly sent flirty snaps to me. I’ve been the opposite where I’ve mainly sent other things and not me in any capacity. She also told me at one point that she’s been single since January and she thinks she's struggling to find a boyfriend.
Probably about 2 weeks ago she sent me a one pulling her hair back, revealing part of her bra. There was no way it was an accident and she’s not the kind of girl who I could picture doing this for just anybody.
So I finally started flirting back with her, and she started flirting back with me. There was around a dozen or so flirty messages over the following days, I sent her a snap where she replied something like “honestly you’re totally the cutest 😉 xxx”. That’s the only time she’s ever signalled openly something like that. Since then, she snapped me consecutively for the next few days, I kept replying and sometimes sent first, but then she slowly stopped replying, yesterday she didn’t snap me at all.
Before this I’d always just assumed she was looking for attention because we never knew each other personally.
Is she trying to pull me in and make me chase her, or is she just playing around with me and assumes I'm doing the same?
One minute she’s hot the next she's cold, I'm really unsure...
I set two traps for her to try and reveal what she really thinks about me, the first was that I set a snapchat Story to see if she would take a look at it & show genuine interest. So I put the story up and several other people viewed it, she’s snapchatted me since and still hasn’t viewed it nearly a day later.
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