Is it mostly just my life that is this shitty?

[Anonymous]

It's me again. Newly unemployed as of a week ago. I was laid off from a well-paying job again. In fact, my resume is looking like shit. I have held 6 jobs in 3 years. Employers are just tossing my application in the trash now.

I am 28 years old and still live with my mom. I have never had a real girlfriend. I haven't even so much kissed a girl in over 8 years now. Women aren't attracted to me.

All my former friends are married with kids. I have lost touch with all of them, and I am trying to reestablish a social life, which is still almost nonexistent. I am making a tiny bit of progress, which something is at least better than nothing I guess.

Despite not having a girlfriend, a wife, and a family of my own, I at least tried to excel in my career. Even that has been a complete failure.

Overall, I am just about a complete failure as a person. If I had to grade my progress in life on an A to F scale, right now I am a D-, and even that is generous.

I can relate

I can't relate much

[KrakenAttackin]

Take a breath brother. First, don't worry about women and certainly don't measure your life success by your interaction with women. Focus on getting a skill that will provide stability and growth potential first. Once you have this you will feel more confident, and other things will roll from there.

What kind of work do you do?

[Asker]

Software engineer

[Nikki1989]

Life is what you make of it. If things are going the way you want it, you fix it.

[Asker]

Yeah, but at what point do I keep trying so much but realize I still remain stagnant and not making progress and that it is hopeless?

[304strichZUP]

Whats about coaching?

[LazerBean]

Yeah.