My guy best friend has recently started acting really weird towards me. We do have a very close relationship with each other, and others keep saying we have a special bond. Long story short, embarrassingly, I am in love with him but scared to admit it because we have such a strong friendship and I do not want to lose it over silly feelings. However, lately, he has started calling me names like "love", "princess", and such, saying he cannot function without me (I go to college 400 miles away). One time he told me that he only wants to go out of the house/hang out if I am there, and later when I brought that up jokingly, he was taken aback and said "Did I really tell you that". He makes sure to call me every day and we talk for at least 20 minutes. He has an excellent relationship with my family and even makes jokes about marrying me, and how my dad would approve of him. I know I sound like a fool even saying this out loud here, but we have kind of a playful and comfortable relationship, and I don't know if I am reading too much into it or acting like a damn fool because I am scared to confess.
Please help me out if you think this means anything, I am STRUGGLING out here and I don't know what to do. I am so down to provide any additional info but please help a girl out, don't know if I should stuff everything or just confess and risk it.
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
1Opinion
I feel like he's dropping hints, and you're not picking up. It sounds like he is just as into you as you are him.
Does he give any other girls thought? Has he talked about dating any other girls?
Hey! thank you so much for your response.
Honestly, not recently. He did have a situationship in January which did not really go anywhere, though really had the potential to. He told me a bit ago that he is done with trying to date, and is deleting any dating apps (which seems odd to me because he is just a person that mingles on dating apps if single). He is a guy that usually told me this girl is hot, this girl has potential, etc., etc. but all that has stopped recently: our conversations have been centered only around the both of us.
He also keeps telling me that he's not trying to date anyone in the next few years as he finishes his studies, which is the part that confuses me the most because like hello, the amounts of hints?
I'll bet you're the exception to the rule.
Most people don't seriously mean that 😂 if the right person comes along, they will ALWAYS fold.
I SEE THAT FSS lol.
It's just driving me insaneee. Like I am going home in a few days and I do not know how I am going to go out with him and stuff all of this in. I am thinking of trying to observe some in person behavior and then maybe make a move further down, since I will be home for the summer. TIME FOR MY SUMMER ROMANCEEEEE.
Thanks for your answers again, really appreciate it <3. Cannot talk to anybody else about this because we are all close friends lol
Lol awww!
Sounds like you both have a thing for each other... why wouldn't you go for it?