How come I don't have a soulmate?

[Sailormoon95]

I've been born into this world growing up in a Buddhist religious family thinking and believing that one day I gorgeous handsome prince charming would come chasing after me or meet me on the day I was born. But nobody came, my friends would talk to me a lot about relationships. But there's nobody that I like, so I tried killing myself because every time I lay awake I feel so lonely in my bedroom. And because of this loneliness it led to my depression. Sometimes, I have a feeling someone would lay right next to me but I think I could go crazy.

[caring__1]

Life is what we make of it, not what is handed to us on a silver platter. Prince Charming is just a fantasy. Even if he existed, how would he ever hear about you or learn about you. No stranger will ever knock on your door and sweep you away to happily ever after. Draw attention to yourself by showing you're a good team player, who shows consideration for others.

Volunteer your time with an organization that promotes a cause you believe in. Take on a role of responsibility, so people can see you in action. Join a group that promotes an interest of yours (photography, gardening, sports, hiking, etc.). Once you give people the opportunity to see what you bring to any situation, someone will rise out of the crowd.

[Sailormoon95]

The things is I have strict parents since I was younger. They've been more lenient with me recently, but that's the whole part with this online world and me being an online entrepreneur and work online full time. I just work at home a lot and barely go out. It's the convenience of the job. And I find it a nuisance just to think about dating nowadays.

[caring__1]

If you don't choose to get out, no one will ever get to know you or find themselves attracted to you. It's not about a dating focus but a focus on adding something to the lives of others. Become aware of what you might have to offer and then offer it. Don't just focus on making money.

[Sailormoon95]

True.

[Jamie05rhs]

Aww. 😢💜. I'm sure you'll meet someone, honey! Just keep your eyes (and your heart) open!

[Sailormoon95]

I've just been in and out of different relationships and blind dates and things like that but I know this guy who really likes me who's been trying to get my attention. He's a super sweet guy and he's one of my dad's dads friends pals. That's the only complicated thing but I told him if he's really interested in me, I've got no plans on my schedule and we can go out.. I took the dare and the challenge..

[Jamie05rhs]

@Sailormoon95 Hey! I think I just answered another question that you just posted today. Is that the same guy?

[Sailormoon95]

Which question? I'm trying to see through these questions but can't find the previous so I can't answer you correctly.

[Jamie05rhs]

@Sailormoon95
When am I saying goodbye to gag? ↗

[Sailormoon95]

Oooh I remember you now.

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes. :)
And thanks for the MHO!

[Sailormoon95]

You're welcome! 😀

[Screenwriter]

The soulmate equation is a difficult proposition. I don't think most people find a matching partner. The few that do are lucky they were in the right place at the right time to meet someone they meshed well with.

You have to seek out people who have similar values, interests and some differences, to keep your lives spicy. But sometimes you are in a good place to hook up with similar people: college, a workplace, a mutual interest such as sailing, travel, etc...

Make a point to a ttend meetups, feed your passions/hobbies, ask friends out, share your life and listen to theirs. The more you interact with people, the better chance you have of meeting others. Good luck.

[SunnyRS]

Honestly I don't believe in soulmates but I do believe there is someone for everyone.
But if they don't come to you, you might have to approach them. I know it's hard to do, I have trouble doing it myself but that's the only way.
We have to open up and take chances we might be wrong but at least we tried.

[Anonymous]

Based on your question? Because you're not spending enough time in reality. To quote you "I gorgeous handsome prince charming". You think you deserve that? Why? simply because you exist?

[shades777]

Because soul mates don't exist, its like astrology or the Easter Bunny

[slatyb]

Soulmates aren't real.

[In_Trance]

you do; you just haven't found them yet