How do people find their soulmates? I don't even have a person around me who has the same ideas as me. Am I a nerd or something?

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Daniela1982 · Accepted Answer

There is no such thing as an actual "soul mate". Just think, even if you did have one, they could be anywhere on Earth. So, the odds of you meeting them is like 1 in 3.5 Billion. If you did find them it would be like winning the lottery! All you can do is find one who is near to checking all the boxes, and that too would be very hard to find, depending on what your "must have" requirements are. The fewer your requirements the better your odds. All you can do is be the best that you can be, and you will attract more of the ones like you are.  I'M YOUR MAN!

Simslover92 · Accepted Answer

It usually happens out of nowhere. One day you just meet that person that just lights a fire into your heart and soul. You don't understand how it happened, but everything about them just seems to click with you. But you have plenty of time to find that special person. Focus on school and friends. It will happen one day for you.

AManOnTheWeb · Accepted Answer

You're 17. Just focus on doing the things you enjoy and you'll very likely bump into someone else who also enjoys doing those things that you click with. It probably won't work out the first time, but you keep doing the same process until you find someone that's right for you. Best of luck, I'm sure you'll find the right person when the time is right, in the meantime, have fun and stay true to yourself.

Stevepro68 · Accepted Answer

You are young and lives a small percentage of what will hopefully be a long life. There are 9 billion people on the planet. You have been dating age for all of 3 years at the most. The idea that you soulmate out of 9 bill people lives within a few miles of your house is not likely. So be patient it will come.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

As a relationship coach, my goal here is to light your path to connection with a sprinkle of fun and romance! Finding your soulmate isn't about sharing identical ideas but embracing shared values and chemistry. 🎶 You're not a nerd; you're uniquely awesome! Your person is out there, and they might just be a surprise package waiting to be unwrapped in the most unexpected place. Keep being your authentic self, and don't stop believing! 💫 The world is yours, you witty darling!

genericname85 · Answer

my well meant advice is: take a step back from the idea of "soul mates". because that puts your potential partners on a glorified pedestal that's very hard to live up to. try to have no expectations and see what you like from there. if you're looking from an idealized place, you won't find anyone.

Anonymous · Answer

Most don't. Most will just claim they do. I can't tell you how many women I've seen on here rub it in other people's faces that they found thier soulmate 4 months ago. And that they're now happily married. Only for 2 months later post on here angry about how he cheated on her and all men are trash.😆

Do things on your timeline hun. Put effort into guys who put effort into you. If it's right it'll happen. And if it doesn't that doesn't necessarily mean it was your fault. And don't compare yourself to other women that are realistically no more successful than you.

glennos89 · Answer

You can find them if you actively search for them. They just come across your path at some point but you can't always tell from the beginning if someone is your soulmate or not. So it could be really anyone

Anonymous · Answer

Do things where there are hundreds or thousands of people all the time. College, big organizations, volunteer projects. You'll find your tribe.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Being in the right place at the right time usually. I am lucky enough to have two of them in my life.

Anonymous · Answer

You only need one.. and If it was easy to find them it would be boring.  You don't find them you usually stumble across them and need to be paying attention.

asarjam · Answer

It will happen out of the clear blue I would bet. Also I would consider widening your parameters - other ideas can be complementary as opposed to deal-breakers.

Ferngully2000 · Answer

I would say it happens when you least expect it, the attraction is overwhelming like you’ve never experienced before and you instantly click, the rest is history.

Chillguy53 · Answer

People lie when they say theirs someone for everyone

Staximus · Answer

There's no such thing as the perfect but there is such thing as good enough. Stop looking for the perfect person and start looking for somebody who is good enough.

In_Trance · Answer

You have to trust that the right people come into your life at the right time

exitseven · Answer

like a lot of things in life it boiled down to dumb, stupid luck.

jahaims · Answer

You're still a teenager... you have barely experienced the world yet.

noohair · Answer

You are young. Be patient. Things come to you if you don't force them to happen.

captain_voidwalker · Answer

Soul mates are a myth. You like most people will die alone

Anonymous · Answer

I got lucky and met mine in high school through my friend group

Cheerfull009 · Answer

Be on GAG, there are lot of men, only you have to ask about your requirements

Likes2drive · Answer

Similar activities that they join or dating apps

Vegasrunner · Answer

Only women search for those things

KrakenAttackin · Answer

If you are a wife you will be found.

Fury_storm · Answer

you sound weird yes

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