If my boyfriend stood me up do I wait for him to contact me?

[Anonymous]

Last night I was supposed to see my boyfriend. He was meant to come round he never text me or callled and didn’t even show and I still haven’t heard from him. I called him 3 times last night no answer. Do I text again and ask what happened or call again or do I wait for him to come to me and get back to me? I called him last night I haven’t said a word today though?

[ImalwaysrightOK]

That's pretty messed up. I'd ignore him until he apologized and he better have a good reason. The only one would be if he's in a ditch somewhere.

[In_Trance]

Why would you wait? Call him and find out what's going on?

[WhitneySnow]

It sounds like he ghosted you. If he doesn’t text you with an apology and a good reason you may need to find a new boyfriend.

[nastyb]

Haha this is not uncommon. Guys nowadays are so shitty. Same reason why i dont date

[Asker]

Yeah I don’t blame you they’re so effortless now a days

[nastyb]

Theyre effortless cuz they already get sex and attention from women without ever putting in any effort. Why marry or get into relationship if you already have free sex and attention from women?

[Asker]

Yeah it is very true, when I sit back and analyse it I already give him everything without effort. Yeah especially in this generation men don’t even ask women out now a days since most of us give benefits without the title

[nastyb]

@Asker

I never sleep with guys unless we are in a committed relationship. I believe that women are giving away way too much while receiving too little in return. By withholding sex, you are able to distinguish between the good versus bad guys.

[Asker]

Yeah it is very true. I wish i could tell my younger self that advice because I end up doing that and it’s too late.

[nastyb]

I'm 27. You only know this after meeting a lot of assholes in life.

[itsalyssaagain]

I’d probably call him to go off at him and then ghost him back lol.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Uhm... do we know he's not dead?

[mommymommymommy]

Does his parents know anything?