Should couples share all their passwords and have complete transparency? (Page 2)
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If this is the one you plan to marry, have a family…it’s important to be on the same page with everything. Trusting this person will be there and know where things are.
as the result says here…most are not in good relationships/marriages…therefore most said no.
Noooooo! Even though you are a couple there needs to be some privacy in a person's life. If you know the passwords anytime there is a late-night text the other would want to see who it is. Out of context anything can be taken the wrong way. Trust in a relationship is more important then the ability to read your partner's texts and emails.
If I ever get a girlfriend, I would base the relationship on trust, not survailance. Its not like couples have eyes on each other at work. school. hobbies and time with their friends. During those times it is the most easiest time to fall inloce with others or cheat but in the end if there is loyalty there is no need for any kind of survailance.
I would have no issue letting her see my social media and email accounts. I've got nothing to hide. For instance, I would have no problem letting her see my GAG account. I manage to refrain from being a pervo on here.
That being said, I am unlikely to give her the passwords to my accounts as we could break-up someday and she could potentially do some harm, if she is a vengeful individual.
No, my now ex wanted all my passwords to things, she also wanted the keys to my house, I drew a line at that, I may have nothing to hide but I want to have some privacy, she also turned out to be toxic and I left her, well if I’d given her all my passwords and my keys then I’d be buggered wouldn’t I as she’d be able to get into everything, including my house.
Definitely not but they could have some passwords they share. Plus if a site has 2fa, they wouldn't be able to log in even if they had a password.
Also they could just use my saved passwords on a device for most things, don't need to know the actual password.
Go that way if you wish bu everyone is entitled to some privacy, I had a girlfriend who could not cope with my phone being unlocked, but my laptop that had all of my work data, my bank accounts access, etc was locked tight with 256 bit AES encryption that is a requirement of my employer.
I did not ask to see what was on her phone/tablet, it was a short relationship due her constant moaning about not being able to trust me as she had no access to my laptop.
My girlfriend went hysterical when I gave her my phone and asked for her phone as an exercise for trust. She gave me a lecture on how you should be with a person who you think you can trust no matter what, otherwise you shouldn’t. It’s controlling and privacy invading! Imagine 🤣
No, you are a singular individual and you deserve and need to have areas and spaces in your life to thrive and indulge on your own, even if that means keeping personal accounts personal. Big FYI nothing lasts for ever, and people change ultimately that person may not be your person forever so know you have weird stranger with a working knowledge and access to all your stuff. Nope.
Absolutely. A woman is the softer side of the man's messulinity making him a complete man, so what's there to hide? However if each finds things in the other person's lives that they don't agree with, before you go off arguing make sure it was before you came into their lives. So you don't go ruining a good thing. Never get it twisted.
I wouldn't say i have secrets. That said I wouldn't want my OH to have access to my GaG account. Pretty much anything else is fair game, but this is my place to vent so would rather they not see it.
I'm in a long term relationship and neither of us know each other's passwords. Could somebody hiding his pornography?
I have no reason to have a passcode on my phone other than he gets in there and changes things without asking me first?
Absolutely not. For most of us, that’s not possible; regardless of whether it is a good idea. I can’t share access to my work laptop and my work accounts. Besides, I don’t believe that any good comes from that level of suspicious monitoring.
On a practical level, I have always been annoyed that Amazon doesn’t have a “private shopping” mode. If I shared an account with someone, I could never order gifts for them without the home page being slashed with revealing recommendations.
That's coercion - not "transparency," you dummy.
Even a bank will not let you access a partners private account, even if you both held a joint account. What is legally yours is for your eyes only.
We should be living double lifes. Don't be tied to someone's hips. Double as one is be a person have your life as an individual and have a life with partner. If you two enjoy doing things together do it by all means. But for our own sanity we need different lifes and different people.
I've never been in a relationship but passwords don’t matter to me at all they’re not on my mind ever so I wouldn’t even think to ask for his and I’m unsure why he would want mine
I feel like if it gets to that trust is clearly lost
To a point, my partner doesn't have access to my company files, bank accounts and documents that are protected under non-disclosure. Other than that she has complete access.
No, relationship/marriage doesn’t give us the freedom to go beyond the boundaries. We need privacy still.
Nope.
I tell the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth here.
Sometimes the truth can hurt the ones we love.
I wouldn't want that to happen.
No, because if my husband had my gag account password. He would get me into trouble.
He is a dumdass online
You better know him as humanearth on here.