Should couples share all their passwords and have complete transparency? (Page 3)

[matchrestore]

I have access to my wife's passwords, but other than to get info for tax filing without bothering her or logging into streaming services I've never really used them.

[menina]

No they shouldn't. Just because you're part of a couple it doesn't mean you don't have privacy. You should be able to keep some things to yourself.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Between me and my husband:

If he asks, I give the password.

If he doesn't ask, I don't voluntarily share passwords.

It's mutual.

[annabananna]

I wouldn’t say it’s a should or shouldn’t. I think couples should talk about what makes them comfortable and what works for them.

[brandon1122]

Exactly!!

[Adam1978]

No they should not. You should always have safe guard against your partner completely screwing your life up.

[LazerBean]

Yes if you are in a legitimate relationship. If you're not married, then no.

[Unit1]

I have seen what sharing passwords can do. Wreak havoc. Its not Like getting divorced without a prenuptial agreement prior but it is similarly on a lesser scale.

I don't Want that.

Also cyber security.

[Andres77]

No. Even married couples need privacy from each other.

[Sjoerd85]

No. I don't need to know her passwords, and she doesn't need to know mine. If you do not trust each other, you don't have a good relationship.

[rosemilk]

lol no. boundaries are perfectly healthy in relationships. is there a good reason you need all passwords? probably not.

[richardcory]

I think people still need privacy. Also many people have work accounts where they are not allowed to share passwords

[Quackthulu2]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/g9A6ctjHAxE

this

[Jazzy54]

No. Honestly, that shows that you don’t trust them. Plus, if they’re up to no good, all will be revealed eventually. Things always have a way of coming out in the open sooner or later.

[BoopBoopBeep]

How do I plan any surprises (vacation, gift ideas, etc) if she can see them in my email? I've no interest in seeing her inbox ever.

[strateguy632]

if she knew what i watched she would leave me so must keep some secrets. same as she kept some secrets.

[UniquelyBasic]

It depends on the relationship but I don't think passwords need to be shared for everything. It's okay to have boundaries in a relationship.

[MJackson1234]

Yes. Anything else besides this is utter BS.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Might as well. Bitches be checking phones anyway or accusing because you locked your shit! Really I think couples should respect each others privacy and trust that their lover isn't fucking around.

[imfreeze95]

I would say no purely from a security standpoint if you share accounts and they get hacked it’s a problem. It’s not about how much you trust your spouse it’s about protecting both of you from outside threats

[Samantha36]

No. Unless there has been cheating and you're trying to work through it