To find your soul mate for life is like finding a needle in the hey stack. You realy don't know until you realize that soundly it happens. I think the older I got the wiser and mature I got in knowing what I realy want in my soul mate for life. So I think around middle 30's and up in age is a good way to start searching for a life partner- that's only if I want a spouse and i have my life in order and ready to settle down. I made my mistake when I was in my early 20's and married the first man that asked me to marry him; now I am divorced, lots of dramas from my ex husband, issues with custody of our kids, its the never ending story. So now, I know what I want in a soul mate, it's hard to find one, I just haven't found him yet. Cheers 🍁
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Ten years ago when I was twenty, I just knew in my heart of hearts I'd met the man who I was going to marry, have his children, and spend my life with.
So far my woman's intuition has not failed me.
That's a loaded question, I'd expect everyone to want to find their partner as soon as possible because we are all aging and things will only get harder as we age, so personally i want to find mine as soon as possible but I don't and wouldn't rush into anything because I believe the steps in between are highly important, "if you are gonna do something, do it right" type of mentality.
I expected to not find a partner as I was a confirmed bachelor, but along she came when I was 34 years old.
Thirty years later, here we are, for better or worse.
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Thought I did at 20-year-old... but by 42 I was divorced. I am 46, now and I am optimistic.
25 years old. didn't know shit about love. 10 years into marriage and still dont know shit about love. Lol
I was 21 fresh out of Basic Training for the Army National Guard and she just turned 19. Smoking hot blue eyed blonde with big tatas. We are still married decades later.
I havenât found mine yet. Iâm crushing hard on this one guy though, who I think likes me as well, but we will have to see. Fingers crossed!
I never expected to find a real partner. But somehow I did.
I had hoped to find someone by now. I did meet almost the perfect woman but she was already engaged. I'm just expecting not to find someone at this point and I'm lowkey ok with that
Probably not anytime soon unfortunately. Maybe in my 30's. I don't know, I feel like modern women don't want to marry anymore, much as I'd like some companionship.
I don't know if I can.
About your age. Finally found her at 40.
Probably never
21, but then I knew not that She was.
From 25 i guess. Actively in this year...
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I don't.
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