Were you looking to settle down with someone in your mid 20s?

[Extraterrestrial1999]

Yes

Not necessarily

Not at all

[DizzyDesii]

As crazy as it sounds, thats always been my goal. i thought i’d marry my preschool crushes. I thought i’d marry my elementary crushes. I thought i’d marry my first boyfriend at 15 and everyone I dated after him. I always got into relationships in hopes of eventually getting married to that specific person. Thats why i get so mad when time gets wasted because i value it dearly. I still take this shit seriously but now I don't know if im dating to marry. Whenever things no longer feel right, i feel trapped and self sabotage in hopes things end. Im scared about feeling trapped in a marriage because i dont seek to divorce unless there's abuse or cheating. So yea to answer your question, I’ve absolutely been wanting to settle down, no matter the age. Its just hard to find someone who looks like what i like, has the personality/mindset/goals i prefer, and is on the same page

[DizzyDesii]

Thanks for mho

[rachel776]

in my 30s i thought but now i'm with someone who has me thinking about sooner but i don't know whether that means now or 5 years

[Summeroflove]

I fully understand the desire to be married and have children. Especially before you get to be middle aged. But people should do it at the right time and place. For some people it may be younger but for others older.

I feel that some people rush into marriage with the wrong person. While other times people are in a relationship for ten or more years. I think there needs to be a balance. When both people feel ready. Whether it’s a year or few years. Both people should be sure they are right to be married. Nobody wants to end up miserable with someone later down the road.

[NathanDavis]

I wasn't... at 25 I was just starting to settle at work, would have not been ideal at all, lol

[handsomelad70]

Nope. I was beside my radio listening to the Detroit Tigers, Lions, Pistons, Red Wings, University of Michigan and Michigan State University football and men's basketball teams

[Avicenna]

Absolutely not

[Lowiu]

I wasn't but I am

[4ngelic]

if you count 23 as mid 20s, then no

[jahaims]

I got married in my early 20s

[Anonymous]

I was. But that didn't happen.

[LavLavLuv]

Yes..