Would you let your new girlfriend of one month move in with you?

[Anonymous]

You met online decided to be exclusive, but she lives 6 hours away would you let her move in with you having known her for a whole month?

yes

no

[Kiss_Me]

Dating someone for only a month barely qualifies as being in a relationship. I would have to see how she handles money, her income, how she cleans her house, etc. Moving in together is a BIG deal. Save that decision for another 6 to 7 months.

[Cheerfull009]

No, I will check her behavior and her sincerity

[Lliam]

Yes, if she only brought some clothes and necessities and had a place to move back to if things didn't work out. I'd be happy to live with her full time. But I wouldn't let her move all of her stuff into my place.

I'd be concerned if she didn't have a job or car and thought she was going to live off of me and just sit around my place when I wasn't home.

[BCA6010]

Maybe. Depends on whether or not there's a likely future there. Not many people can or would just uproot their lives for someone after only a month of little more than talking and maybe seeing each other in person once or twice...

[ArrowheadSW]

No. One month isn't enough time to get to know the person.

[Adam1978]

No, but she can stay over. And after she stayed over multiple times you can determine if you can live with her there permanently.

[crossdressingrihno]

No absolutely not. You don’t know someone after only a month of dating.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

I don't think one month is enough time to know someone well enough.

[runnerboy]

I guess it would depend on how old we were, if we got together before that to have sex and were compatible, and what the financial implications would be like. It could be fun for both however. I'm assuming they would be sharing a bed?

[Fireguy17]

depending on how things are between us probably.
The door does work both in and out so if it doesn't end up working out then it is time to go your separate ways meaning she will need to leave.

[abc3643]

I did. In fact, she wasn't my girlfriend UNTIL she moved in.
23.5 years later, we've been married almost 22 years.

[Iron_Man]

30 days is way to fast to move right in. She could be just using you for a roof over her head when you don’t even know each other