Would you commit and move in with someone you've only known for 2-3 months?

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Daniela1982 · Accepted Answer

Like they say, you don't know even half of the things about a person until you marry them. Then the kid gloves come off and you find out a lot of things you wish you never knew.

MendaciousMarxist · Accepted Answer

no Don't rush to move in with someone you barely know. Give it time, let love grow; A year's worth of friendship will show if you're a good fit. Then you can make a commitment.

coachTanthony · Accepted Answer

Nope. You don't really know someone for quite sometime. I am talking at least a year.

Avicenna · Accepted Answer

Probably not, but exogenste circumstances could change my mind

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I would have to get married to move in with somebody and I might commit after 2 months of dating if we had been friends for over 6 months, but not if it was a different case.

Guy13 · Answer

Not without Credit, Criminal, and Income Verification...

ShellyB · Answer

No I would not with someone I have only known for 2-3 months but I could imagine a situation where I knew somebody longer but only dated 2-3 months and felt really good about the relationship quickly because of knowing him longer. Also I will mention that for me, moving in with someone is the same as asking if I would accept a proposal to marry him, I would not officially move in with a guy unless we were engaged.

Screenwriter · Answer

Did it once before and didn't turn out well. You need to know someone for many months, in different situations to determine what kind of person they are. Commitment, as well a knowledge of a person takes time.

Sour-rose · Answer

Oh god no. I can only imagine how bad it would go. My friend on my ps4 has been friends with me for... like 10+ years? He knows practically almost everything about me but not everything. Like I don't know about him. And if we were to meet? We agree we act like a couple who's been married for 60 years... fighting like one verbally... and physically. (it's a best friends thing) So to commit with someone I've known for 3 months... might as well not unpack

tireduck · Answer

It depends on the individuals who can make it work.
I say yes if you have money saved if a situation arises that the living situation with that person isn't working out and if you see yourself ad least being with this person for the next 5 years at least.
I say no if you have no money or no job backup for the move cuz then you are stuck in an awkward situation of being with an ex-partner and possibly meeting their hookups.

Labokachulaa · Answer

No, because you don't know enough about the person. Also, you want to have your own space so that if things go wrong you are not stuck or being kicked out.

Weapon77 · Answer

No, that's a terrible idea. You can't properly know a person an evaluate the relationship's nature and potential in that little time.

NewYorkCity · Answer

If she has a job that gets her same salary as I make, yes, because I would at least know, that most likely she is not with me and decided to move in with me because of money, since she is fully capable of sustaining herself.

Kiran_Yagami · Answer

If you don't know someone after 2-3 months, what is a few more months going to tell you? If they're lying, they're lying. A few more months isn't going to make them tell the truth. If they aren't being forthcoming, they aren't being forthcoming. If you don't know someone after 2-3 months, then you need to move on.

LovingJo · Answer

Yes, I've been there, and done it... It can work.. You just have to know for sure, that you are comfortable with spending long periods of time together, and know that disagreements can be handled "appropriately"?

Paulalove98 · Answer

3 months seems really fast unless we feel super content with one another. 6 months would be better for sure.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Been there, done that. I met her in Aug., by late Sept. or early Oct., she invited me to live with her.

FinalFantasyBro · Answer

Nope, I don't think that's enough time to actually get to know the person.

letuswaltzforthedead · Answer

3 months would be minimum for me, 6 months would be better and a year would be max (if we met with the intention of dating).

abc3643 · Answer

I did but that was sort of forced on me. I would not do that again.

t_time · Answer

Asked my boyfriend to move in like 2 months of dating. Next year we bought. House together

Miristheiss · Answer

No.  HELL NO.  Marriage. That when I would of and did move in with a romantic partner.

Vesuvius87 · Answer

Nope. If I'm committing then it's the whole permanent deal with me. I don't do trial periods.

Likes2drive · Answer

Not really, that’s too quick, probably need a year at least

KneeDragger · Answer

My wife and I moved really fast, at least in comparison to others we know.

dustybiker · Answer

Some people just click into each other. Hard to be apart from the get go.

Anonymous · Answer

I moved in with my ex after 1 month, but only because I was desperate for somewhere to live and he offered his place.. that relationship only lasted a year, and he cheated on me twice.

Literalbillionaire17 · Answer

It depends. I do believe that’s sometimes you just know that you’re supposed to be with someone but I don't know this is risky.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Nope. Unless they're willing to have separate beds or invest in a huge bed. Its not about sex, it's about being able to sleep comfortably.

Guardian45 · Answer

With my current responsibilities, I cannot see it happening so quickly, but I suppose Life is what happens to you when you're busy making other plans, right?

humanearth · Answer

I did and married them Still married to her 30 years latter

AmeerX · Answer

Isn't that mostly how arranged marriages are taking place 👀. The two barely know each other and get randomly selected to be husband and wife.

Ironic_Method · Answer

I'd moved in with someone I knew for 2 weeks. It worked.

AsaKyo · Answer

Yeah, because I wanna leave my house and move elsewhere

Brando10222 · Answer

If I trust that person and she respects me then I would definitely move in

moonpie89 · Answer

Hahhw no. Can't trust that. Sounds like a big risk

LiamJHayden · Answer

No. I actually do not foresee living with anyone, ever.

Whatisthatname · Answer

No, that is definitely too soon for me to move in with someone.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

No. I don't believe in moving in together unless married.

Charliefretz329 · Answer

No way, I need my own space and have trust issues to soften first

OddBeMe · Answer

Depends on what I’m committing to. Exclusivity? Yes. Marriage no.

Twalli · Answer

6 months is the earliest I'd consider moving in with someone.

EaterPeter · Answer

Please don't do it. I have done it twice.

Songomatic · Answer

Why not? It’s better than wasting years of someone’s time.

LazerBean · Answer

The thought would never even occur to me.

Anonymous · Answer

I can't imagine feeling that connected to a woman after such a short time, no!

TenderFantasy · Answer

I did and it was an interesting experience.

CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS · Answer

That is way too soon bro

virtue2332 · Answer

Not without some contingencies

msc545 · Answer

No, only crazy people do this

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

No way I'd have to get to know them first

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

Yes. I’m that reckless and delusional.

Wicked_Witch · Answer

No, I think 4 months would be the minimum.

Akam93 · Answer

Not really. That's way to soon.

Iron_Man · Answer

That’s a little bit too early

SnowedIn · Answer

Absolutely.

krin_m · Answer

I would need to get to know them better.

dudeinohio · Answer

Need a year or more.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Fuck no!

Apulu_Imback · Answer

Never

Jltakk · Answer

absolutely not

elizamichale1 · Answer

Maybe

ZenJen444 · Answer

No wtf🤣

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