Girls, What would you say to someone who's afraid to fall in love?

[Anonymous]

This is something that's been plaguing me for years now and I finally found a way to put my fear into words.

"Why are you scared to fall in love?"

"Because I don't know what's real anymore. You may say you love me but do you really? Everyone has something they'd change about me, so how do I know you don't have something to change about me too? I'm not the prettiest person, and I know there's better, so how am I positive you won't leave me for better? I'm used to being left and discarded like I'm nothing. I know I'm at the bottom of everyone's priority list. I never get picked first, so how do I know they really mean it when they say I Love You? Because nobody ever means it anymore."

[hiyamotherfers]

I would say that it's ok. People are afraid of many different things. Depending on the person they are liking or whatever is going on, the girl should stay with them. I dont know if this is making sense. Probably not. But its ok to be afraid to fall in love, just dont let it affect your life in a bad way. If you are too afraid then you will miss out on some of the best part of your life

[Anonymous]

I would tell them that you are right, dont fall in love blindly and have some patience.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I was afraid of falling in love too.

Fell in love, was really happy, got heartbroken real bad.

I am no longer afraid.

Because whatever heartbreak I’ll have in future will most likely never match the heart wrenching pain I have already experienced.

Love and get hurt.

That’s what I’d suggest.

[Nikki1989]

I would tell them to grow up.

[Asker]

In essence proving my point as you're basically saying people aren't allowed to be scared of you.

[Malwi93]

I’m not afraid I just don’t wanna

[Ms_Facesitter]

I understand.