Girls, What would you say to someone who's afraid to fall in love?

This is something that's been plaguing me for years now and I finally found a way to put my fear into words.

"Why are you scared to fall in love?"

"Because I don't know what's real anymore. You may say you love me but do you really? Everyone has something they'd change about me, so how do I know you don't have something to change about me too? I'm not the prettiest person, and I know there's better, so how am I positive you won't leave me for better? I'm used to being left and discarded like I'm nothing. I know I'm at the bottom of everyone's priority list. I never get picked first, so how do I know they really mean it when they say I Love You? Because nobody ever means it anymore."

Girls, What would you say to someone who's afraid to fall in love?
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