What do people think of a female led relationship? Is this something bad for me?

[alearningboy]

[Smashingdoozy]

A relationship "led" by one person is not a good relationship in general. You're in it together, you're both equally a part of the relationship and should act like it. Nobody should be doing more than the other, nobody should be giving more than the other.

[Adam1978]

There is by nature always an in balance between two values nothing is ever perfectly balanced. So this is a illusion the point is that you need to work together not measure what % one or the other is contributing. Together you can get better result than alone if you are suitable together.

[Quackthulu2]

If you are more concerned with what other people think of your relationship than you are with the actual relationship itself you clearly aren’t mature enough to be dating in the first place.

[DextroShade]

The only place she will lead you is the end of the relationship. A relationship only ever works when the man leads.

[Sasha0426]

So I can quit my job right now if I want to and wait for a man to come along?

[DextroShade]

@Sasha0426 you should prioritize finding a man first.

[Sasha0426]

Why? I don’t wanna 😩

[DextroShade]

@Sasha0426 then buy a dog and die alone. 🐕🐕🪦

[Sasha0426]

I already have a dog so I’m half way there 😄
Though I don’t get why people make dying alone a bad thing and get upset when that’s what you want.

[DextroShade]

@Sasha0426 I am not upset that you want to die alone, but the men you rejected to do so don't want to pay for it if you failed to adequately plan for retirement.

[Sasha0426]

I’m not relationship material anyway. And they can find WAY better women.

[KrakenAttackin]

It means she is or will eventually begin having sex with a masculine man.

[Anonymous]

No one needs to "lead". Two adults can have a discussion and come to an agreement or compromise both are happy with.

[alearningboy]

I know I thought she can change but she loves control. She doesn't want me to work she is saying that she wants to work fulltime.

[Nikki1989]

It should be a team effort. Nobody should be leading anyone. That ended thankfully in the 1960s.

[Anonymous]

I have been seeking one for years, too hard to find.

[Billlewis]

It's the best thing there is, in my opinion.

[MeatPuppet]

If it works, it works. Why not?

[shades777]

sounds like hell, better off being single

[Anonymous]

It is something obviously bad for YOU

[htmndg183]

I want to be in one.