If your partner wants to take you out to celebrate your birthday, who should plan the birthday plans?

[Anonymous]

The one who's birthday it is

The partner

Both

It doesn't matter

A total of 20 votes were cast: 9 girls and 11 guys. See detailed results

[provokeesmokee]

Partner, ideally. Both if the partner doesn't know what to do/wants to involve you because they know you like it.

Personally, I'd like to contribute an activity idea (climbing, prolly), and an invite list. Everything else I want them to handle, because that's the real treat.

If I have to organize and plan, then attend and hear my partner brag about how they made it happen, I'm dumping them in front of all my invites.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

The best birthday I’ve had was the one that my ex made for me as a surprise.

He can plan, I trust him on this.

2nd best birthday was when I was 21, my mom three a surprise party for me. Everyone I loved - was there. I was really happy.

[clampfan101]

I don’t like planning my own party because I feel like I’m asking for too much unless it’s super simple. I’d want to make a joint decision after trading ideas.

[Aphrodite01]

I say both but the partner should give them a choice. But do what person wants.

[MementoMori777]

The one that decided to take the person out