Have you cheated or been cheated on?

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provokeesmokee · Accepted Answer

Yeah, first boyfriend.

Cheated on me for months with a married woman twice our age (who looked like a turtle, ngl) who happened to be our boss at one point (before he fucked her - maybe).

He never even told his friends or family we broke up. I had to tell them, and threw in that he cheated, lol.

He cried when he realized I was actually leaving him. He was such a coward.

I actually got texts from his sidebitch, after she left him too, and tried to save her marriage. She wanted to be friends and mock him - I told her I wanted nothing to do with someone like her, she was sick if she thought doing that to my ex would help anyone, and encouraged her to be a wife worthy of the husband willing to keep her.

She never texted again.

I've since identified it wasn't fucking someone else that upset me. It was the lies and dishonesty.

Now I know I'm non-manogamous, provided there's clear communication, rules, and trust.

Camelia7012 · Accepted Answer

Never cheated but yes i was cheated on. Hurt as fuck

Anonymous · Answer

I would never cheat that's not who I am. My first boyfriend cheated on me but I don't really know what kind of cheating it was considered. I know that may sound weird but I'll explain it.

So we met on a dating app. When he asked me to be his girlfriend some time later after dating for a while, he never deleted his dating profile.

He continued to talk to girls having himself as single. I have no idea if he flirted with those girls, met up with any of them or just kept it friendly.

Just by those facts alone it seems shady. So I had a friend who spotted him on the dating app and informed me about him being on there.

Before I confronted him, actually I wanted to see if he was cheating on me so I asked my friend to message him. He turned down her advances, telling her he's taken but still down to hangout with her.

I think it's weird that he still wanted to hangout with a woman who is interested and she let him know I'm not interested in a friendship I will fucking jump your bones if we meet up.

He kept mentioning I have a girlfriend but we can still hangout. He wasn't saying no to the sex requests, at least in my eyes.

So eventually I confronted him about him having the profile. He denied trying to cheat on me but told me was looking for friends with only women that seemed extremely suspicious almost like he's taking me for a fool.

Also the fact that it didn't occur to him hat I'd be uncomfortable with that... Like he wouldn't appreciate if I did that. It's common sense and common courtesy to at least avoid talking to a bunch of random women in a freshly new relationship.

He tried to show evidence of the conversations he's had so far by sending me a screenshot of his inbox but I noticed my friends messages were deleted like he was trying to hide that. To make a long story short lol I broke up with him.

So yeah I don't know what kind of cheating that was, like emotional cheating or straight up cheating.

EricSummer · Answer

Yes, my ex wife cheated on me and that's what made me end our marriage. To my knowledge she had been faithful for 17 years though. Personally, I do not cheat.

bolverk · Answer

I've been cheated on once and only once, the person who cheated on me did not get a chance to do it to me again the relationship ended the day I found out, I cleared out my belongings and left, changed my phone number, social media, all my bank passwords and locked my credit. Never spoke to the person again even after she tried to contact me through my family. She had one chance, she knew how I felt about those who cheat, she did not get another.

SawerBrown · Answer

I was cheated on by the woman I was engaged to marry. Obviously we are no longer engaged and she is out of my life.

Billlewis · Answer

Yes. One of my first girlfriends cheated on me and after I got over my initial reaction, I realized that it turned me on tremendously. Eventually I became a cuckold and I started telling women when I met them that they come just keep me sexually frustrated and only let me worship their feet and butt while they enjoyed the freedom to date and fuck other guys whenever they wanted. Being cheated on changed my whole life for the better.

RossSabat · Answer

I’ve been cheated on but have never cheated. I would never want to hurt anyone the way I was hurt.

she cheated on me multiple times with multiple men over our time together. It’s been 6 years since I’ve been/seen/ or heard of her and to this day I still have trust issues from time to time with people.

slatyb · Answer

I don't think so. The only possibility would have been my ex-wife, but she remained single for a long time after we divorced. AFAIK she is still single. OTOH after divorcing, the longest I was single was about six months. Now I'm happily remarried.

DermalPunch · Answer

I've never cheated but been cheated on certainly. Oh well.

Anonymous · Answer

Not that I know of, but who the hell knows. I could be getting cheated on right now! I'll never find out.
I'm usually the guy women cheat WITH, so eventually karma is gonna slap me in the ass for fucking so many dudes' girlfriends

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

No he had the decency to tell me he didn't want it to continue before starting to date the other girl.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I was cheated on once.

humanearth · Answer

Oh yes, a few times

Dingsbums · Answer

All those girls cheat don’t believe them😂

Anonymous · Answer

Not according to the normal world. lol

chicken_nugget24 · Answer

Yeah

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