Why do you think you’re cut for a relationship?

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I don’t think I am tbh lol.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I don’t think I am. I sometimes crave one. And other times I seriously don’t 😑. I've never been in a relationship in my life. I HighSchool I was a social reject, so I was never socialized to court with a guy properly or flirt or anything like that. Once I lost all the weight after my teens, obviously I became way more attractive than I anticipated. But the damage was done. I wasn’t “experienced”. I dated certain guys testing the waters finally at 22 were I lost my v card. I learned so much. And honestly it’s sad it turns out there truly is 2 categories. The simps that flirt and simp on you to no end, completely turning you off. And the hot chads, that you desire to marry. There’s nothing else! There’s nothing else! In my early Dating I also learned that I myself are not relationship material either. I can’t be with a guy under 6Inches 🍆.  I can’t stand simps ( needy simps) they completely gross me out and turn me off. If a fit, masculine guy ever even wants to settle it’s usually because he’s small 🤏 downstairs. And I notice, that with GREAT 🍆 D GUYS, or highly masculine men of extremely deep voices and high testosterone. I become needy myself. I loose all respect for myself completely and allow these men to do as they please with me. I completely loose common sense. I completely go obsessed and loose all reason. So no, I don’t have relationship experience, and I’m obviously not relationship material anyway. Men today are just not what they used to be 40 years ago, sadly. And if I’m not turned on by a guy. IM NOT!! 😑🖕 IM JUST NOT!!

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

My friends and fam dont think I am. They say I’m no good just like my daddy 🤣 But these are the same people who stay in bad relationships for a longass time, my dad included. So those mfs can’t talk. I don’t settle like them. I’ll walk out. 🚶‍♀️ In the past, I’ve been in love triangles. The dudes were aware and that was up to them if they wanted to stay and allow me to get to know both. I wasn’t going to be physical with anyone until I made a decision. I’ve been in an unsatisfactory relationship where I emotionally strayed. I snitched on myself and the dude forgave me. Karma got my ass tho. I’ve never physically cheated on anyone and won’t allow myself to, even if I’ve been cheated on. I have so-called monkeybranched. I can’t help if I move on quickly. I don’t do rebounds and I do give my all to the next dude. Like fck I look like missing out on the next best thing just because an ex hasn’t fully moved on? Nah, Ima do what I do. Live and let that shit die if it ain't workin 🤷‍♀️ Sure, I will fight for what I want but I refuse to be the only one trying to make something work. Deep down, some guys surprisingly still feel I’m relationship material. Heck even I still think I’m relationship material. But the problem is, there’s no telling if I was built for short or long term ones. I’ve questioned if marriage is for me. Commitment doesn't make me feel trapped but if i find out the person isn't who I thought they were, I’mma confront em and then likely head out. I just can't guarantee I’ll remain single for long after I leave them

lightbulb27 · Accepted Answer

I never did before and so I avoided them like the boobonic plauge... lol... humor.

But I matured and grew. I'm stable, faithful, decent listener, contribute, decently supportive. I have good qualities for relationship.

My wife is happy which makes me happy. It's a good thing when you find it and make it.

It's frustrating as heck til you get there. Most of the problems are in your past that is screwing up your now. That's true for the guys... they are screwed up, causing problems in the now.

There's good guys out there, gotta dig them out...

DJB72 · Accepted Answer

As a species we function best in relationships. Especially intimate ones. As long as there's been philosophical discussions going back predating the written word humans have instinctively been drawn to relationship.

Granted we hear that call at different times and ages, but it's always there.

I was 30 before I met my wife. I dabbled a bit before then and all I found was that those girls weren't the one I'd be able to spend a lifetime with.

Never say never. It happens when you don't expect it

Apple1996 · Answer

I'm in a relationship and not even cut out for it. Thankfully my husband gives me a lot of space tho and I don't have to deal with him everyday. If I was in a normal relationship I just couldn't do it

Lynx122 · Answer

I'm struggling right now myself. I thught things were going well but she keeps bringing her political views into the relationship making decisions about the relationship and eve sex based on that and I told her I've had enough of it. It's not easy for me to find someone that I'm compatible with so I want to make this work but I'm still going to say what I think and feel. If this doesn't work out I don't know what my dating life is gonna look like but I'm used to being alone. I'm not the type of person that's gonna go along with something I don't like just because I'm afraid of being alone. Either things work out or they don't that's just how it is. We wanted to go on holiday together and I was really looking forward to it but now I don't know if it's gonna work out anymore. I'll have to see how she responds to what I said.

exitseven · Answer

I always thought that about myself. My friends all had girlfriends and went on dates. I never did and I was really no different from them. I figured there was some intangible thing that I lacked and would never have. I built my whole life around things that I could do by myself. Eventually I met someone who was different and for some reason she was attracted to me like I was attracted to her. Maybe I was a late bloomer at 19.

MementoMori777 · Answer

i know i am but people seem to want the wrong things, i just need one woman that is similar to me and its GGs

ohsheeT · Answer

Well only you know the reason why

And when you're ready for one you will know it
I think it's cool that you look at it and acknowledge it instead of getting into a relationship and it fell in because you weren't ready so yeah you have to be ready when you're ready you're ready

TenderFantasy · Answer

Then don't? There's no rule that says you have to be in one. Also, yeah, people get into relationships to show off anyway a lot of times lol.

And I think if you are matured and responsible, then MAYBE you can make it work? But it really depends on your priorities and what makes you happy, in your opinion. I didn't really understand this question. Everyone is an individual and there is no blanket way to relate to someone in my opinion.

Izzy_3991 · Answer

I think I am cut out for a relationship.  I am loyal, funny, witty, kind, loving and caring 🥰

RealMarek · Answer

I am. I’m able to love and receive love, and don’t put walls up or do damaging things that get in the way of intimacy. If a person can do this, then all they need in order to be good in a relationship is a compatible match who can reciprocate this.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

Me handsome and smart = Good Catch!

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Don't know what cut for a relationship means, do i have to bring the scissor with me princess rapunzel 😄

Anonymous · Answer

I certainly am. It's everyone else that isn't cut for me. I believe in sanctity and pure loyalty in a relationship. It seems those concepts have died with people my age.
They don't know what love is and they never will because they're all on the wrong path to find it

runnerboy · Answer

I think I'm too young for a serious one. I want to experience life and meet (hopefully more) a lot of hot girls... I'm a horny teen guy so I'm sure you understand!

Anonymous · Answer

Because I KNOW I'm honest and loyal, and tenacious when i care, love, and value someone or something. And I'm always well intended. So whatever shortcomings I have i can work on. The key is finding the right match for me. And that match is RARE.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

I am for a relationship centered around FUN, but certainly not a relationship with responsibilities.

TallAnon · Answer

I have some good traits that others like, that's all.

Anastasia_435 · Answer

For our relationship we both caring and loving🙈

Molly1997 · Answer

I’ve never found it hard to be in a relationship?

humanearth · Answer

me yes, with the same girls close to 32 years

Anonymous · Answer

@itsalyssaagain why are you not cut for a relationship? What is this high standard you or "everyone else" sets that you fail to meet?

SigmaNiggeh · Answer

No. Once I achieve the following than I am Make 8 figures be neurotypical Get back in shape and even better than before. Ideally FFMI of 27.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Because I'm steady and faithful and gentle and passionate, and I give my whole heart to my wife.

Juxtapose · Answer

I'm pretty flexible, clear with what I want and loyal.

springxxx · Answer

What does that mean? lol

LivingExample · Answer

Everyone is “cut for a relationship” because God Designed us that Way!

bernhardh · Answer

Cute or cut for? I didn't apply with you by the way

Manuel2 · Answer

What type you should ask. Many types of relationships

PointTaken · Answer

Really, I don't think I am also.

LazerBean · Answer

Considering it's been smooth sailing, id say so.

Spade_01 · Answer

No, marriage is ideal 🗿.

EaterPeter · Answer

I don't think I am

Anonymous · Answer

Why not?

Unit1 · Answer

I have lots and lots of love to give.

Jltakk · Answer

lol I'm way under qualified for the job.

Iron_Man · Answer

Yes I do

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

I'm certain I'm not

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