Do you care to know your partners sexual history or do you think everyone starts fresh in every relationship?

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DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

Yes I care to know. I eventually need to know how many people they slept with, how many were relationships vs hookups, if they are still friends with any, and if they are currently “clean” (which I’ll find out once we get tested down the line). I’m not saying their answers will or won’t be a dealbreaker because there may be exceptions to the rule lmao but yea, I need to know

Apple1996 · Accepted Answer

Yess I need to know their sexual history. I wouldn't want to be with a man thats had lots of partners just cause it's too disgusting and not worth risking a std from them

Billlewis · Accepted Answer

I don't necessarily need to know her entire sexual history; I'm more interested in knowing if she's had sex recently. It drives me crazy when I ask a woman if she's just had sex , and she tells me that she just got fucked within the past few days.

Lliam · Accepted Answer

I never asked about a partner's sexual history and none ever asked mine. So no, I don't care. I assume that they have had sex before. I prefer women who enjoy sex.
In my opinion, there is no such thing as "used goods".

YesterdaysChild · Answer

For me it is a requirement to know. I don't like used cars so why would I like used men, or men who are users? Now I've heard that when you have sex with someone you are having sex with all the people they have had sex with. I don't want a guy who has plowed more girls than the family farm.

Miristheiss · Answer

I made a point of knowing. I was never going to marry a promiscuous woman nor anyone who had been into hook ups or casual sex or is bi or did threesomes or who had ever cheated in her past.

mandyfire98 · Answer

I couldn't care less. It literally has no effect. None.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I have never discussed our history with my husband. There is no point. I look forward, not backward.

SarahSizzle · Answer

I don't care, it doesn't matter to me, in fact with my husband I have no idea how many previous partners he's had and he doesn't know my sexual past either

Samantha36 · Answer

Yes. Its good to be open and honest. I'm way to honest. Iv had way too many hookups and friends with benefits. I'm still friends with some of them too. Doesn't mean i would ever cheat on my boyfriend though.

Kabluie · Answer

It doesn't matter. Only to incels on this site who apparently only want their "pure" virgin just for them.

DextroShade · Answer

Women will lie about their body counts and the sort of sex acts they have done previously because they know that these things lower their value. They do tell on themselves in other ways, such as having tattoos, piercings, danger hair, and posting pics on social media of themselves in fancy cars or exotic locales provided by men they were fucking. The red flags are obvious and they disqualify her from a relationship.

lightbulb27 · Answer

yea ya wanna know because of all the associated problems.. physical and emotional and ex risk if any.  there's a reason for those traditional values... hint hint...

Anjoomkabir · Answer

If someone can lie about how many people they've slept with and you wouldn't be able to tell the difference, does it really have that much value in your relationship?

exitseven · Answer

Yes, I would like to know her whole history including this. Has she ever been arrested? Has she used illegal drugs? Does she have a job? Does she have any kids? There are so many things that I want to know about her.

sheenagwapa · Answer

i wanna know especially if these people are still in his life because maybe i'll be treated like a third party or outsider not just in the relationship but the whole family. thankfully God is watching and see the sufferings of his people

provokeesmokee · Answer

I'm curious what they've tried, what they like, what they don't, what they want to try, etc.

I don't really care about their history other than "do you have an STI or have you ever had one", and "are you childfree".

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

Everyone starts fresh with me as long as I get the same courtesy. And since professional circles are small I don't want to hear any shiz when we run into someone I've been with at a work dinner or gala event or some such.

richardcory · Answer

Don't care at all, other than if there is a disease risk in which case we both get tested to be sure.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

If I care about something I'll ask and ideally they answer and I'll do the same. At this point, I assume they're encountered other women and have experiences.

Rei13 · Answer

I would want to know to see if our values aligned and it could potentially be a dealbreaker

Lauliss · Answer

As a virgin woman, I would want to be with a virgin man too, that would be fair. Also, it's disgusting knowing your partner's genital touched many other genitals. You become one with your partner when you have sex. So yes, it matters A LOT.

Paige90 · Answer

I always ask the guy as I don't care. I also don't care if he knows how many guys I have had sex with.

LittleSally · Answer

I do care and wouldn't want someone who is the literal opposite to me - I like someone very romantically and sexually discerning.

msc545 · Answer

I don't want to know about it because the information is probably going to just make things uncomfortable for both of us. I have a history too and I'm going to keep it to myself.

Fuentes · Answer

Yeah I can't have a chick whose been ran through by the whole city

LazerBean · Answer

I already know, and wouldn't have dated for long without knowing.

shades777 · Answer

i mean as long as she doesn't have stds i really dontt care. As many woman I've slept with don't make me a hoe so im not going to do that to her

Bobbysworld · Answer

Not at all. Stories are always fun but how many people they have been with does not matter at all.

slatyb · Answer

If they want to share, I would have no problem hearing about it.

DiegoO · Answer

Only if she cares to tell me. Is not something I am gonna be asking about.

SolitarySolace · Answer

Why the hell would I want to know a potential partner’s sexual history? She ain’t gonna have one with me so why would I care?

ImalwaysrightOK · Answer

Absolutely. Would never date a slut and certainly not commit to one. I have self respect.

EaterPeter · Answer

I care. I want my partner to come with file of service records.

Jadebamboo · Answer

Not among the first things you ask when starting a relationship. The details are unnecessary, the STD history VERY much is.

Anonymous · Answer

I think you should wait for marriage outside of that yes if your partner wants to know I think he’s entitled to know

DrewJohnson · Answer

I think it's interesting to know, but it doesn't determine anything about the relationship.

YesToLife · Answer

I would like to be aware but not really care about it

Keishio · Answer

Nah, you can't be a slut all your youth and expect to be trusted when you want to settle down

Agape93 · Answer

I couldn't care less about it

whistlingwh0res · Answer

It’s a big deal when you are young. As you grow older, it doesn’t matter anymore

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, definitely want to know her history so I know who she really is.

BryanMoore · Answer

it's irrelevant and I'm not one to judge

rachel776 · Answer

it's their business

es20490446e · Answer

It all depends on the context.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Through an STD test yep

Jamie05rhs · Answer

"starts fresh" haha. That's a good one. 😄

normandi · Answer

If u care u will live alone

Justagirl_03 · Answer

I care a bit

Iron_Man · Answer

Yes I care

riverrat3 · Answer

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