Need all your advice?

[Anonymous]

So it’s my birthday tomorrow and my girlfriend who asked me the other day what I wanted to do so I sold her. And this morning she messaged me saying. I don’t know if I want to go into town tomorrow because her tooth is hurting her. But I feel like she can’t be assed to do anything that she’s not the centre of attention of. It was her birthday last week and I went all out for her and of course she loved it. I really don’t know what to do or think anymore. Like whenever I ask her if she wants to stay over at mine she’s always like nahh but if I say to her I’ll come to your house she’s like Yh. I’m at her house way more than she is at mine. I really don’t know what to do anymore

[ZiZi_Bell]

You need to have an honest conversation with her and tell her that you feel you're being undervalued. See if you can at least get an explanation. Make sure to be calm and collected, not accusatory. Use "I feel" statements instead of "you do" statements.

However, while this behavior is pretty mild, it's vaguely narcissistic. So be prepared for her to come at you for criticizing her. If that's the case, my advice would be to get out of that relationship.

Hopefully, she's just a little self-centered and this wakes her up to that.
Worst-case she's a fledgling narcissist.

[Anonymous]

She probably feels more comfortable at her place, but yeah, her actions aren't cool. Its like your birthday means nothing to her.

[LostandFound__x]

You should say that to her and see what she says.

[Anonymous]

Your trolling patterns have become quite obvious.

[In_Trance]

stop saying yes all the time