I had a dream about my girlfriend and this guy I used to be friends with, now I think about it a lot and I have mixed feelings, should I tell her?

[Anonymous]

So 2 weeks ago I had a VERY graphic dream that my girlfriend and this guy I used to have a friendship with. In the dream I saw them having very vigorous sex basically and instead of trying to stop them I kinda just stood there just looking without them realizing.

The first few days I was really jealous, the images kept coming back to me, but then I began feeling mixed things. One moment when I was alone I realized the images actually turned me on, and that made me feel weird, now I think about it a ton!

Theyre both really attractive people and in a way they're total opposites, she's a good girl and he's a bit "bad".

I think I need to talk to her about it but I don't know how much information I should tell her, could anyone give advice?

Keep it private.

Tell her about the dream but don't say I'm now getting turned on by it.

Tell her everything, including the that I get really turned on by thinking of them together.

[RespectfulGuy]

Don't tell until you want to watch her being fucked by another guy.

It's a fantasy of yours. But she may not want to act it out.

Worse, she knowing may end up labeling you as a freak and break off.

So keep it private. Until you think she'll agree to this as a fantasy.

[Billlewis]

Since you're apparently turned on by your erotic dream, I'd go ahead and tell her about it. It's not so strange that she'd think differently of you, is it?

[boggboss]

Talk to her about what that u want to see her get fucked by another guy?

[kappasan]

Tell her of the dream, but never mention "who of your friends" is the fella.

[Asker]

Why shouldn't I tell her who? They don't know eachother and she might think I don't trust her with knowing who it is

[kappasan]

If that is the way you feel like it then that's the way to do. Ok. It is so much dependent of the person and the kind of stressful life they have between weekends.