Do you think hugging your boyfriend is enough?

[Anonymous]

I do crave my boyfriend so much to the point that when I see him, hugging him is not enough :(... and no we haven't had sex yet. I just love him so much that hugging him isn't enough.

[RespectfulGuy]

I'm a guy. Hugging (and kissing) is never enough if its a romantic relationship.

If you intend to wait until marriage to have sex then I suggest have comprehensive discussions about sex after marriage with him.

While sex is not everything in a marriage (much like many like to say money is not everything), if lack compatibility, the marriage will fail (much like without money basic livelihood will fail).

Hence don't leave it to after marriage. Be business like and plan to minute details before tying the knot.

[Asker]

Thank you, I will.

[Decoded93]

There's other ways to have sex without losing your virginity, you could masturbate together, or do oral, or even, if you REALLY want to make him happy, let him try anal, but use a lot of lube

[Asker]

Yes I know... I'll talk to him.

[Decoded93]

What would you be willing to try for him?

[Asker]

hmmm I guess I have to figure that out.

[Decoded93]

I'm sure he'd love anything you're willing to do for him! Just go slow so you're comfortable, and don't be afraid of communication

[Asker]

Okay... thank you.

[Decoded93]

You're welcome :) if you want any advice DM me!!

[provokeesmokee]

Ask if he'd be up for more.

Kissing, heavy petting, etc - there's a lot of steps between hugging and fucking.

Tell him you want him - add on "sexually" if he's dumb as a doorknob - and ask if he wants to go further.

He can't read your mind. Use your words.

[Asker]

oh okay thanks

[DizzyDesii]

Im not a big hugger unless the guys holding me from behind. So no i dont think hugging would be enough

[DizzyDesii]

Kissing would be enough though to hold out tho

[Asker]

Exactly.

[errornotfound]

You have two options. The first one is to ask him if he wants it. The second is to, "surprise" him. But I believe before even sex, you guys should get comfortable with kissing,

[Asker]

We are comfortable with kissing.

[errornotfound]

okay, then take it from there

[Ms_Facesitter]

Cuddling and just talking for hours does make my day better.

[Asker]

It does actually.

[sheikalana]

It depends on the days. Some days all I need is a hug and cuddles, physical intimacy without having sex.

[Asker]

I get you.

[Meropatrick]

Why not have sex? What is the reason behind not doing it until marriage. Do you think that he will leave you if you did it?

[Asker]

No I don't think he will leave if we don't have sex... it's just that I grew up in church and I'm a Christian and we were always taught to wait until marriage.

[JesseP1nk]

You need to talk to him. Just say what you told us. That hugging is not enough for you. He probably jerks off, thats why he is not in the mood.

[Asker]

oh no he does always be in the mood actually.

[Staximus]

Well give him a kiss and tell him "let's go get a room"

[Asker]

lol Okay

[boggboss]

No I don't believe hugging is enough physical attention

[Asker]

It really isn't

[Yannishka]

It's nice... BUT IT'S NOT ENOUGH.

[Asker]

Honestly.

[Drumlin2001]

Why not just have sex? If you want to

[Asker]

I do want to have sex but I'm also waiting to get married first.

[Anonymous]

I need to get under his foreskin

[Asker]

lol same...

[elizamichale1]

Ofcourse not darling

[Asker]

Okay thanks.

[elizamichale1]

😊😊

[RedHotSallyJo]

Don't wait until marriage.

[Asker]

Why not?

[RedHotSallyJo]

I know a woman who waited for marriage. Her husband didn't give her an orgasm in 20 years.

[Asker]

ohh wow... so I should have sex with him and if I don't have an orgasm, I should leave?

[RedHotSallyJo]

Her husband told her only whores need orgasms.

[Asker]

Nah he's out of pocket for that.

[RedHotSallyJo]

He was a religious nut, but she didn't find out until it was too late.