He says it worries him because it makes him feel like I feel like he’s gonna leave. He thinks I’m not comfortable with him.
which isn’t why I kiss and hug him at all. I do it because I love to kiss and cuddle with him and it’s just my love language. I just have an urge to do so. We’ve been dating for a year but I still feel excited about him.
i don’t mind doing what he wants. For example, he wanted to just lay in bed on our backs or sides and just talk. It felt nice.. But I don’t feel like I know how I’m supposed to kiss and hug moderately without feeling like I’m too much 😐😶
What do I do?
am I too much?
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It's not bad but there can be a time and a place. My girlfriend is the same as you: she hugs and kisses me all the time. I'm probably not a great example because I'm generally not a touchy-feely sort of person. However, there are times that are more appropriate than others. Last night for instance she started hugging me and kissing me while I was eating and just before that she'd been doing it while I was trying to work.
I don't mind hugging her and I don't mind kissing her, and I wouldn't want to tell her not to do it because she isn't doing anything wrong, it's just that sometimes I'm in the middle of something and if she were to wait 15 minutes then she could have my attention.
Nah you're a good example! At least its good to hear from another point of view. he's the same he says there's a time and a place but thing is we are alone when i do it and he wanted less of it still. I do do it all the time but even so i give room for us to be individuals and i dont understand why cuddling why watching a movie is annoying.