What would you do if you found out someone was spreading lies about you?

[Anonymous]

[HollyK21]

Depending on the severity of the lie (like if it’s the sort of slander that could cause issues in my personal or work life) then I would confront the liar about it for sure, that’s crossing the line. But if it’s just something stupid I wouldn’t care. In fact it would be a very telling moment for me, because I know that a good friend and not a sheep would come to me personally and ask. I can respect someone who cares enough to ask me personally and not believe gossip.

[Asker]

My sister and I had a massive falling out to the point we will never be in each other's lives and I have even banned her from being allowed to be anywhere near my daughter.

The lies are. My sister was accusing me of using our uncle's Facebook account to post things about her when I didn't, she even accused me of sending her some friends request and I told her her I didn't post Jack about her and regarding the friend's request she might want to do some searching because at the time when she received the request it was widely reported Facebook was glitching and sending random request to people. She is even accusing me of stalking her and I'm like I'm not stalking anyone I can provide evidence to prove where I have been at all times Worst of all she was contacting child protection on me accusing me of this and that in order to try and have them take my daughter of me. While child protection did investigate they didn't find any evidence that my daughter had been hurt or harmed or even that she had ever been in any danger

[virtualwasp]

Normal day in my life. Depends on the lie and who will hear it

[RHK36]

Not associate myself with them or interact. I don't care if they friends or family. It's a choice to stick around for people that behave that way. I don't condone or enable anyone around me to have bad behavior. Only let my parents slide on their shitty behavior lol.

[MementoMori777]

nothing, let them lie their ass off i guess, its not like anyone likes to really confront nowadays but its also possible i might physically assault them but i try not to go that way of course

[Asker]

It's my own sister who has been spreading the lies and I did confront her about it but she is still spreading lies.

[MementoMori777]

do you know why she's doing it

[Asker]

I revealed her eldest child has a different father to his siblings. I wanted to get revenge after what she had done to me in the delivery room and what she had done after I had my baby and more importantly what she had done to my baby.

[MementoMori777]

well id say not to let those vengeful urges take over anon, i know you crave vengeance but it only digs the hole deeper, then they get the same craving and the cycle never stops

[zagor]

It's happened, though in the one instance that comes to mind I found out about it so long after the fact that there was no point in bringing it up.

[Asker]

I wish I had found out long after but the lies my own sister is spreading about me are all very recent.

[qwert1234]

I will confront them and ask wtf is their problem.

[Asker]

I did confront her as it is my own sister but she is still spreading lies

[qwert1234]

What did she say?

[Asker]

Claims I am stalking her and I'm like I can prove to everybody where I was at all times so how can I possibly be stalking you. She accused me of using our uncle's Facebook account to post crap about her when I didn't, she even accused me of using our uncle's fb to send her a friend's request to spy on her Facebook stuff and I told her I had nothing to do with it and if she bothered to look on google she would see it was widely reported at the time she supposedly received the request that fb was glitching and sending thousands of people around the world random friends request but despite there being proof of this and that proof also showing it happened at the time she received the request she is still lying and saying it was me.

She even contacted child protection and mental health and lied to them, she tried to claim I was harassing her by sending her a bunch of messages and my baby was in danger. Yes child protection did investigate but they found no evidence of my baby ever being harmed or being in danger. Regarding the messages, I owned up to sending the messages but immediately mental health picked up that I had been responding to messages that had been sent to me by sister where she told me I was nothing and messages where she had made threats towards me and even made threats to show up to my house

[Luckycharms12]

Feel sorry for them wouldn't waste my time on people like that

[LiamJHayden]

If they were actually damaging, I'd sue.