Is it ok for boyfriend to be on OKCupid making friends but not telling me who he is talking to?

[Anonymous]

I am not sure but I highly doubt he tells those girls he has a girlfriend either. I understand he has no friends and want to meet new people but I never see effort in real life to meet guy friends with similar hobbies or interests. He is always on dating apps or any apps really wanting to meet new friends, but they are always only females. If I get upset, he said I am force isolating him. But, he never show me who he talks to either while I always share with him who my friends are and what we talk about and even include him.

[Nxtawm]

It’s so obvious he’s cheating, who goes onto dating apps to make friends? They’re called “dating” apps for a reason. And he only wants to make female friends while being secretive about who he’s talking to. If he has nothing to hide he wouldn’t be secretive. Him saying if you get upset, you’re isolating him is classic gaslighting and brushing off your feelings.

[Adam1978]

No because if it's just friends he doesn't have anything to hide. And he should use meetup and such apps not dating apps.

[boggboss]

I dont think any partner would be happy with that situation

[Drumlin2001]

That's not good. And not normal

[Anonymous]

No, he is cheating.

[jahaims]

He's cheating