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He's gonna end up alone?

My boyfriend devotes 24/7 to his job , parents, and everyone else neglecting my needs in the relationship.. he was taking care of his room mate 24/7 and only contacting me about his problems or to vent. When I express to him my feelings or show concern he says I'm fusing.. I told him this morning I'll listen to him vent about his problems and when I have my issues I deal with them accordingly... how is his room mate situation my problem? He would complain about his job , parents, or room mate... causing stress on me. I'm already dealing with enough such as my college , homeschooling, health, running my home and pretty soon business. My plate is full to be a therapist when I see one weekly.. now he's upset because I opted out of not saying anything when he's venting , but when I express how I feel in support it's a problem.
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I'm some where on his back burner list and my needs aren't getting met because he's too stressed from dealing with everything else.. now I'm at a distance and chose not to say anything when he's venting
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This is someone I've been knowing 15 years and I'm not getting into another relationship after him.. I'm at a distance and have minimized communication now due to how toxic he is.. he needs a therapist. I'm not a therapist.. he's about to lose me.. I'm open to friends but done dating a while
He's gonna end up alone?
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