In other words does he want to be left alone?

[Anonymous]

I have been seeing a guy for almost 3 months now (it’s casual) we were seeing each other on a weekly basis up until two weeks ago when he experienced some person issues. A few days later I messaged him normal but then 1 week went by with no reply. Then I messaged asking if he is uncomfortable with me etc and he needs time to feel ok again. He replied the next day, sorry I have been busy with work. I worked last night now I need to get ready for work. Sorry again don’t mean nothing by it. Then said have a good weekend with a 😘 emoji What does he mean don’t mean nothing by it? Is he brushing me off?

[razelove]

More than likely, it is a casual relationship, when bad things happen, it can be very refreshing to leave behind everything connected to those negative feelings.
When you have a casual relationship, pushing behind people associated with that time frame is extremely easy as well.
Maybe y'all will get together for booty calls again, but also it sounds like you're getting attached, he might have noticed that and cut it off early. Three months is a very long time for a casual relationship, like time to find someone new.

[OlderAndWiser]

I am an attorney and I am never too busy to call my fiancee. I can't always call at a specific time during a work day but I can always call her sometime during the day. This is an excuse he is giving you.

[LoveRegina81]

He is keeping you on the back burner in case his other option doesn’t work out. He doesn’t want to talk to you, but he also doesn’t want to let you go just yet. So he uses the “sorry I’m working” so it’s not his fault that he’s blowing you off. Add in the occasional kiss face, etc.. to keep you lingering around until he knows what to do with you.

[Asker]

@loveregina81 yeah i had a feeling about this. He is genuinely working but definitely has time to reply. I was his only option until 2 weeks ago. But yeah seems like he has another option now who is better than me.

[Asker]

@loveregina81 also he is a 10.. like perfect body with abs to die for lol. Sooo good looking. So unless he is an arsehole to his other option or prefers consistency.. then it’s looks like I have no luck… also unless he doesn’t like her vibe or whatever.

[arodriguez664]

Maybe focusing on another person and letting him go would be the best option? Doesn't seem fair for him to not communicate clearly about what is happening. I agree with the comments he probably found someone else.

[Summeroflove]

If he ignores you… probably and who wants to be around someone who intentionally ignores you?

[shades777]

you clearly want him more than his does you and he either has options or he's busy which what women want even if they complain about it, which is what your doing.


If your actually interested you'd try to set something up, the phone is for setting up dates, not to blabber like your teenage girls.


If a man isn't setting up a date he probably views you as an attention whore or someone just wasting their time, so I suggest you straight up ask him out to get a clear cut answer.

[Asker]

@summeroflove I asked him if he was uncomfortable with me or if he wanted me to leave him alone and he replied,
sorry I have been busy with work. I worked last night now I need to get ready for work. Sorry again don’t mean nothing by it. Then said have a good weekend with a  emoji

[Asker]

@shades777. I asked him if he was uncomfortable with me or if he wanted me to leave him alone and he replied,
sorry I have been busy with work. I worked last night now I need to get ready for work. Sorry again don’t mean nothing by it. Then said have a good weekend with a  emoji

[shades777]

there you go, he's busy. however, it should be noted that people make time for those they want to be with, coming from someone whos worked double 7 days a week I can still make time to see a woman if i wanted.

You just got to know how to plsy the game because people are full of shit

[Asker]

@shades777 so he is keeping me around so whenever he feels like it he can contact me. And doesn’t want to cut ties by saying sorry leave me alone.. I. E playing the game.

[Asker]

@shades777 so he is keeping me around so whenever he feels like it he can contact me. And doesn’t want to cut ties by saying sorry leave me alone.. I. E playing the game. He also knows I will always say yes to him.. or how can I play the game back…

[shades777]

sounds like you just answered your own question

[Asker]

@shades777 is it accurate though?

[Wild_princess]

Wait and watch. dont be too eager😊

[mommymommymommy]

What's casual "dating". I don't get the difference

[In_Trance]

yes he does