Who are better communicators, women or men?

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Peter_Penetrator · Accepted Answer

Women by far.

Only women communicate through silence. When they are mad, they get quiet knowing that it is only going to irritate men. Women will withhold sex. Depending on the woman a man is with; sex will happen. Only not with whom she is angry with. Men suffer through our attempts to find out where we malfunctioned. Eventually, after we have suffered long enough, women will open up and address the issue (s). Then it is the responsibility of the man to listen and to let the women know she has been heard.

Men on the other hand are less likely to say those three words: I Love You. We expect our significant others to know this already. We mostly show our love by providing. Men however are just not the nurturing type.

Unfortunately, when men become angry, we can either become physically and emotionally abusive. Or the complete opposite, insecure. Not all men intentionally anger women. Some do. One of those ways is the dreaded sexual affair. The worst is the more harmful, the emotional affair. If he is more emotionally involved with a woman more than his significant other that can be even more damaging.

By far. Women still communicate better than men.

razelove · Accepted Answer

Men, we're more direct when there is something to communicate. You get a lot more words out of women, but few of them have any meaning.

Women tend to communicate in a much more passive way, not just in relationships, but at work and as acquaintances too. There is a lot more dropping of hints, where to get from A to B, you're not just told the directions, but have to build the path through following bread crumbs.

It's very exhausting, and much harder to do than just problem identified, problem brought up with possible solutions, problem solved and staying solved. You can also roast other men if they try to hide behind a victim mentality.

amber0x · Accepted Answer

I agree that it is person specific, but in my own experience, men are generally better communicators because they are more direct and straightforward. Sometimes they do miss emotional cues, but overall, that mean what they say and don't beat around the bush.

Unfortunately, my experience with the vast majority of women is that they are not assertive and are more passive aggressive. They expect you to read their minds and tend to project their own thoughts, feelings, or perspective onto you. They get upset if you don't agree with them and expect you to read their minds.

I have met men though who were the same as I described a lot of women, and I've met women who were the same as I described a lot of men. Again, I think it is person specific, but I think society does condition men to be assertive and women to be more passive, and I think it shows up in our communication styles.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Accepted Answer

Depends on the individual man or woman… I don’t think good communication is a gender trait, more some “people” are good at communicating and some aren’t🤷‍♀️

AviatorTom · Answer

Men are better at being succinct, including only the important facts, while women are better at telling long stories, leaving nothing out. Which is better? Depends who you're talking to.

Avicenna · Answer

As a group when it comes to communication in general, women are; however, on romantic matters, I think men are a little better.

AmandaYVR · Answer

Are you tryin' start a flame war, Coach? Ay yay yay... Null vote from me!

DizzyDesii · Answer

I think women WANT to communicate more while a guy will brush it off and find a different way to cope. But I think men are more calm when it comes to communicating. Our emotions distract us from being a bit more understanding and therefore we come across as less calm when trying to communicate with him

BasedBaeBecca · Answer

It is difficult to make a broad generalization about which gender is better at communication, as it is dependent on multiple factors, such as personality, education, cultural differences, and communication style. Both genders have their own strengths and weaknesses when it comes to communication, and neither is better or worse overall. Some people may feel more comfortable and at ease conversing with women, while others may prefer men as conversational partners. In general, it's important to appreciate the unique perspectives and skills of both genders, and foster an environment of mutual understanding and respect through effective communication.

ManOnFire · Answer

Men just say stuff how it needs to be said, and when it needs to be said. So men. Women will often try to avoid saying what they think, or lie about it altogether because they think they should say something you want to hear.

Women will also not communicate something entirely, only choosing to be silent as a way of sending a message, because deep down she doesn't have the courage to really communicate how she feels, so she would rather display silence as a way to express her anger or displeasure.

Anpu23 · Answer

Both are good communicators in their own way, it's just that men and women naturally communicate in different ways. While women have a tendency to talk about things, guys have a tendency to do things to show what they feel or want. As women seem to want guys to "open up and talk more" it creates a disconnect as guys are good at showing what they want/feel.

Anonymous · Answer

Women talk more but say less. They thrive on subtle signs and signals. They value communication without words to the point that they often mistrust words alone seeking 'true' information from signals, body language, tone, gut instinct.

The signal to noise ratio is poor.

Men don't talk much but almost all of it is to ask for information or supply information as clearly as possible. They see no point in obfuscation or subtlety.

The signal to noise ratio is absurdly high and efficient.

Therefore men are better communicators.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Not sure. Women tend to communicate more. Men tend to be less responsive, but more direct. When a girl says she's fine, it can mean anything from a real "I'm fine." to "You'd better figure out how to placate me before I end you, you stupid MFer!"

megzs16 · Answer

1000000% women. We are usually more in touch with our emotions so therefore we are able to communicate them more. Men are good with being direct, but half the time they lack awareness of their own feelings so how in the world are they supposed to effectively communicate?

Dysney1023 · Answer

Men can be. But some also play a lot of games. But the few respectable ones are definitely better communicators than their counterpart, the women of the world. It’s tough because it’s neither in some ways. I’d say a lot of people don’t say what they want to say. But women are wired to be more subtle. I find as the human race we all stink at communicating in relationships. But at work men are the better communicators.

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

Woman communicate more, but men are better in my opinion because they are direct and concise.

Not that there aren't situations where I'd choose the woman over the man. They're very good at communicating emotions through subtext.

That's why I always have a woman as my notetaker/assistant. They're very clever when it comes to people. I could be doing business with someone and she'll tell me everything I need to know through a look while the three of us atlre talking.

GOLDFISH_smile · Answer

Well I don't know about u, but growing up I kinda got the idea that "communication" and "listening" was for pussies. And that's sorta held true, in a general sense. Men tend not to bother communicating. Women tend to only bother communicating with other women. So overall I'd say women maybe have the upper hand, but not rlly in a helpful way in mixed scenarios.

RavVid · Answer

depends on the area eg everyday life or professional like politicians etc.

Women are effective in everyday life, more so than men I would say. When it gets to professional I think men are better and lay it out more. At that level women are still inclined to communicate emotionally.

MissBoogus · Answer

This is definitely down to the person 😩 although I want to say men because they do tend to think more logically LOL women can be overrun with hormones half the month

genericname85 · Answer

men. by far. i don't know how this is even controversial. with women it's always about feelings, emotions and irrelevant details. while that "can" be efficient in a very limited set of circumstances (like talking about your emotional world, which shouldn't be neglected), it is actually very inefficient in pretty much every practical real world application of communication.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Depends on who you ask.

joeND · Answer

Every woman I ever knew thinks the silent treatment is how to communicate. When you do that to me I find someone else to talk to. I won't waste a second trying to figure why you are mad. Silence is a conversation ender. Keep doing it he won't ever talk to you ever again. I have to say men. Even though men generally say less. We save speech for important stuff, not for do i look good for people i will never talk to like women do

electromagnetic · Answer

The level headed individual will be the one to communicate well.

Anonymous · Answer

I work in the restaurant industry. My world revolves around the majority of men supervisors, managers and chefs… they’re more open than any woman I know. Maybe it’s talent, maybe it’s just a strong skill squired for the job.. but they’re artsy and detail oriented and funny and tough and they’re not afraid to voice their opinion, speak their mind and communicate. And I love it.

BlackJeep · Answer

Women talk more but who the hell knows what they mean. Men say exactly what them mean but don't say as much and women don't know what we mean when we say exactly what we mean.

Anonymous · Answer

It obviously depends on the person, but in general I would say men tend to be better communicators. Men are more consice and straightforward. Women tend to talk a lot more but not say as much, if that makes sense. Also men are less prone to unnecesary communication whereas women tend to always feel like they need to be comunicating, whether there is a reason to or not.

worldscolide · Answer

Women.. The problem is, most women simply aren't direct. They don't state exactly what they want, they drop hints and get pissed off when we don't pick up on them.

zebronics · Answer

women or men? Well, let's settle this once and for all. Women have the superpower to speak at supersonic speeds, while men have an unparalleled knack for selective hearing. It's like a cosmic comedy duo! So, ladies, talk fast, and gentlemen, practice your "Yes, dear" skills. It's a linguistic battle for the ages!

ArrowheadSW · Answer

Overall, I think women are the better communicators.

Raaj4you · Answer

I think women have good communication skills compared to men. I am lesser talkative. I don't have good communication skills compared to other men and women. The reason is simple most of the girls and women are talkative. Women talk so much with each other that they don't need to work on communication skills. When they start speaking they will not stop and they will not let you speak. Oh god! Why did you made girls / women?

admles · Answer

It's fairly even, to be honest.

Women LIKE to think they're the better communicators, but experience tells me this isn't the truth.

The dance around the point, um and ahh, but can't actually be direct. They use hints instead of directly asking.

JesseP1nk · Answer

I think men are better communicators. Men use certain words deliberately and try to give their point without any misunderstanding. Women use words which you can interpret how you want. Maybe because it gives them more room for maneuver.

Anemone978 · Answer

I voted women.. but to be honest I don't know.. both tend to be shit at communicating just women talk more and let their feelings out, but that doesn't mean they are necessarily good at communicating..

smashleyy · Answer

from what I’ve seen men take the lead, but not by much. Emotional maturity plays a big role in good communication, I don’t think either gender has mastered that yet. men are just less combative and more direct

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

Men don't talk as much as they should, but when they do it's direct. Women speak a lot without saying anything sometimes, but when they are effective communicators they do a better job of speaking about everything that needs discussing

Simslover92 · Answer

I voted women as better communicators. We're just more in touch with expressing ourselves and our emotions more than men are. This is not to say that men can't be good communicators but they usually hold back on how they feel and are less expressive.

A_Bell · Answer

As with all things, individuals matter. But, despite our reputation, women are terrible communicators. We talk more to say less and use hints instead of direct speech.

So, if you judge on quantity, women win, quality, men win.

AlexEfron · Answer

Where's the option for NEITHER?  MEN fail to express themselves properly. WOMEN expect telepathic interpretation from men.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

My daughter speaks 100 words to get across. (I still don’t understand) My son, one word. (I still don’t understand)… no wonder we have communication problems.

Anonymous · Answer

More generalizations. 🙄 Obviously it has to do with each individual, it's not gender based. Why are there only two options in this question?

DiegoO · Answer

Women's. Is one of the reason they are hired more in jobs that require constant communication with customers. Example: call centers.

Anonymous · Answer

I watched an Instagram video of a guy interviewing women asking who has better communication, and obv women said themselves. He then asks, if women have better communication why do they expect guys and men to read their body language or figure out women like a book. Boom — there ya go for all you GAG women out there, y’all don’t have better communication. Guys and men are straight forward.

Anonymous · Answer

I'd say it kind of a draw. Men like to think k they're better communicators but they're really not. They indirect with everything. So while they talk a lot they actually say nothing. Men on the other hand are short, sweet, and to the point. But we also avoid communication as much as possible. Especially with woman as we know anything and everything we say will be picked over and dissected. So we know most the time communication is most of the time a trap.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

That depends, if you want way more detail in the communication then women, if you want just a straight forward answer with not a lot of frills/details, then men.

rigmarole · Answer

Generally the best authors, public speakers/politicians, comedians, etc. are men. Men in general are far better at conveying messages to the masses.

imfreeze95 · Answer

Ronald Reagan was known as the Great Communicator I know Margaret Thatcher was also a great communicator.  It’s not gender specific

Anonymous · Answer

Men.

When you ask a woman who is clearly mad about something, why she's mad, she will say "I'm fine"

When a fight happens, or the conversation isn't going her way, women are the ones who storm off.

Women are always saying how they prefer male friendships because of how fake and passive aggresive women can be.

msc545 · Answer

Women are generally better at this although the emotional loading they often give to things may make information less reliable.

stepyo99 · Answer

100% men. Women often have no idea what even they're thinking at any moment so I don't expect them to be able to express ideas to others well at all.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Women are better communicators. Men like to bottle things up, and it is like talking to a brick wall half the time.

RingOfFire · Answer

I don't know if women are "better" communicators, but they are definitely more prolific communicators. The challenge for men is trying to pause the communication sometimes so you have a chance to breathe!

Sparkie460 · Answer

Women are definitely better communicators. Some of them don't shut up though lol

Christoff92 · Answer

Depending on the couple. Not every man and women has such traits 😉

Smashingdoozy · Answer

Neither, people are awful at communicating that's why we constantly have to tell people communication is key.

NuitBlanche · Answer

Women are usually more eloquent, but there are also many men who can talk well. Men as well as women can also tell you the blue of the sky..

Titanic1912 · Answer

Women are the better communicators because women are details. Every time they ask questions, they want details. Men are basic. When women ask men questions, men usually slur, “I dunno.”

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

You should be more specific like what kind of communication you are asking about context always matters. Ranting is a form of communication and we know whose better at it

uwotm8e · Answer

Men, women do not communicate but rather use sub-communication and hope the point gets across. How anyone can say that is an effective way to do things is beyond me.

Boomchakalaca · Answer

Men communicate better, women dont tell when smthn is wrong

AaronKrieger · Answer

Ironically we're both worse and better at it.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Women spend a lot more TIME on 'communication'. Where men are more economic and precise about it. So I'd estimate 50/50?

provokeesmokee · Answer

People with more practice. It's a skill, not a gender feature.

asphaltrhymes · Answer

To the credit of (most) men, the conversations are usually airy and grounded 👍👀

Anonymous · Answer

Pretty sure genitals are nothing to do with it.

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