Was I wrong to walk off when my boyfriend and his family wouldn’t stop speaking a different language on a day out?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriends 2 siblings came to visit. I went for a day out with them. They would frequently speak to eachother in their own language , joking and laughing, despite all being able to speak English. Eventually I got fed up, and whilst we were in a museum I walked off and looked at stuff on my own. Was I wrong to do this?

[slatyb]

That's pretty rude, and your boyfriend should have said something. He's young and maybe it didn't occur to him. You might have spoken privately to him about it. If they weren't willing to speak English, they should have left you out of it.

[29b8s3]

I think in a way you were being rude. You already knew that you're in a relationship with someone who is bilingual. He sounds like he has a good connection with this family members and that's great, but that is also rude of him too since he is aware that you only speak English.

My best advise is for YOU to tell him how you felt about it. If he does it again the next time then he doesn't respect you enough to care about your feelings.

[Pterodon]

No I think that was rude of them