Do cheaters still love their spouses as much as non cheaters?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yes. Because I don't believe there's any correlation between loyalty and infidelity. People cheat because they are weak. They have lack self-control over their desires and emotions. So opportunity controls their loyalty.

Someone can genuinely love their partner and still cheat, and someone who has fallen our of love with their partner won't necessarily cheat. A persons character determines if they'll cheat or not. Not how much they love you.

I'd never assume a guy would never cheat on me based on how he felt about me. That's naive and foolish. I judge a person's loyalty based on who they are as a person. Getting to know someone on a deeper level lets you know how much they can be trusted.

Trust in general is determined by who a person is. Not by how they feel about someone, or by a situation they're faced with. Some people can keep the secrets of those who've betrayed them. They'll never divulge anything to anyone. They'll stand by their own morals and values.

kylee2437 · Accepted Answer

They could, but it still doesn’t justify the fact that they are too emotionally immature to be in a monogamous relationship.

richardcory · Accepted Answer

Depends on why they cheated. Someone can love their asexual spouse, but still want a sex life. (and the spouse may not agree to an open marriage).

OTOH some people are just selfish and will use whoever is available for sex

DextroShade · Accepted Answer

A man can love his wife and have sex with another woman, a woman cannot love her man and cheat on him.

Flower7 · Answer

No because the cheater’s attention is being split between multiple people and the spouse can’t have their whole heart.

Anonymous · Answer

No. And if they say they do they're lying to thier partners. And if they truly believe they do then they're lying to themselves. If you love someone you don't cheat on them. It's just that simple.

Anonymous · Answer

I love you so much I just had to be with someone else to appreciate you even more!

SnowedIn · Answer

They can. It's entirely possible.

jahaims · Answer

You can't cheat and be in love

sheikalana · Answer

Some do.

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