Is he getting the impression he’s moving in with ne?

[Anonymous]

I’m 7 months pregnant with a guy I’ve been DATING. Not official if you’re wondering why I’m concerned about him thinking we’re moving in.

he lives with his mom and lives in a small box room at her house and a single bed. Obviously I know he dosent like it but he dosent mind it since he’s got his mom.

I mentioned how I was moving out next week and he’s told me to get him a list of things that he can get for the flat, he also mentioned how he wants to get a trainer rack to keep at the flat for all his trainers and a spare wardrobe for his clothes and is asking me what I’m doing for our sons nursery and if he can leave his car in the garage at the flat etc.

is this a indicator he’s getting signs i’m letting him move in with me and the baby? I haven’t exactly said that I’ve said in the future I’d like that but I’m paying for all these bills and he’s not not mentioned helping with the bills and I don’t know if he’s getting the impression he’s living there? I don’t wanna ask Incase I’m wrong and he turns around and says that I’m expecting him to move in with me lol?

[kylee2437]

You are having a baby with a man , and you are too afraid to ask questions and set boundaries? Girl…. Lol this type of stuff is going to be happening to you for the rest of your life with him and you having a child with you.

[Asker]

Yeah you’re completely right I know. It’s just when I ask questions and set boundaries he really dosent take it lightly most the time and ends up yelling at me and I don’t want the stress of it while I’m pregnant so I just tip toe around

[kylee2437]

@asker I totally understand. Hold your ground though. Your moving is for you and he shouldn’t be taking it about him, nor should he think moving in without asking is okay

[Billlewis]

I think you need to sit down with him and have a discussion about this.