Am I doing something wrong? advice please?

[capri_queeen]

My boyfriend and I don’t live together. He is going through some hard times. I go out of my way to buy groceries for him to take home. I find he rather come to my house to eat. This man eats way to much for my budget. 2 days ago we both had fish and chips and I didn’t finish mine so I gave it to him to eat. After he was done he asked for cereal. It was only half a box left and he eat all of it in 15 minutes. How do you tell a grown man to stop eating? Today I didn’t go grocery shopping and he kept calling to see if I had food. He got mad and hung up on me. This man already has food at his place and I don’t know why he doesn’t cook.

[DubiousIntentions]

He's taking advantage of you, which I'm sure you realize. Exactly what does he spend his money on? Tell him to chip in for groceries or to take you out to dinner now and then. If not than he can eat at home. Stop enabling him. Frankly this would be a red flag for me. I'm not their short order cook or soup kitchen.

[sheikalana]

What's wrong with this guys still behaving like teenagers at their mom's house? I would honestly tell him that I do not appreciate him eating all my snacks.

[WindAtMyBack]

He sounds like a leach. Cut him off and stop giving him food. That's not helping him. He has no incentive to fend for himself as long as you keep giving it to him. If he gets mad when you tell him no, it's even more reason to cut off the gravy train.

[BlackJeep]

A grown ass man should buy and cook his own food.

[Nikki1989]

It sounds like he is taking advantage of you. You need to set some boundaries.

[Billlewis]

Yes, you're being way too nice to him.

[Billlewis]

In almost every relationship, one person's ass gets kissed and the other person does the kissing. You can decide which person you want to be. Isn't it about time you started getting your ass kissed, instead of kissing someone else's?

[capri_queeen]

I really needed to hear this. Thanks Billlewis

[Billlewis]

You're welcome... the only thing that's separating you from getting your ass kissed is your belief that it's appropriate.

[Jazzy54]

You’re not his mother. Therefore, you’re not responsible for him in that way.

[WhitneySnow]

He sounds selfish