Am I doing something wrong?

[Anonymous]

Me and my S. O have been together for 7 months, before we got together he knew i was pregnant with previous partner and lost it at 5 weeks, he also knows a lot about my past and the unfortunate situations and circumstances I've had to deal with.

I feel like every time any of there things such as pregnancy or having children as well as (bad) past relationships (which i would say I've been there and lived through it) come up he makes a weird face or makes a comment that makes me feel like I shouldn't be bringing up the past but also I thing he forgets that im a very opinionated person, who has been through a lot and if I can give advice or at least share my experience to help someone im all for it.

However I feel like my partner hates that I still can remember my life before him?

I'm not sure that's the case, that's just the way I feel, I just wanted an outsiders point of view before I bring it woth him.

[Anonymous]

I like that sentence: " im a very opinionated person, who has been through a lot and if I can give advice or at least share my experience to help someone im all for it." That's positive.

It's good if it's wisdom to keep the relationship healthy, people alive, stay out of troubles so don't repeat. It's bad if it's complaining. There is an art to communicating content without too much, training... and letting others fail and learn.

In general, should be a point to the discussion not just emoting to him. Women sometimes like to emote (e. g. dump) to process their feelings and guys can't handle it... it's a bunch of crap they can't fix, maybe don't want to hear about it over and over. Find other ways to process, not just him.

It's a lot to lose a child like that and deal with whatever else past issues, so do process it.

[Summeroflove]

Well talking about things is part of building a relationship and a bond maybe he would rather you hide things from him. If you feel like you can’t just talk maybe he isn’t the right one for you because real serious couples can talk about things with one another that are personal.

[AI Opinion]

Here to help you navigate the relationship maze! 😎 It sounds like your partner might be a bit uncomfortable with your past conversations. It's not uncommon for people to feel insecure when faced with their partner's past. But girl, your past is part of your story, and sharing it is a testament to your strength. Maybe he doesn't know how to react, or sees it as a red flag due to his own insecurities. You’re not doing anything wrong by sharing your experiences. Communicate with him openly about how his reactions make you feel, and remind him that your past shaped the fabulous person you are today. Keep being fabulous! 🌟

[jahaims]

He can't lie to himself about you if he keeps hearing about how trashy you are

[Godihateyou]

God I pray this man is free of you soon. He deserves so much better.